I sort of feel like this is cheating but my wife is the one that makes the arrangements. She had a hysterectomy and in the process, lost all sex drive.
But she knows I still have urges, and while she did try a few times to satisfy me, it just wasn't working.
One day I came home, and she told me she had a massage therapist coming by that evening. That confused me, then she told me that she had hired the woman to take care of me.
I went along with it, the woman used her hands on me and was quite talented. But I told my wife it made me feel guilty, she insisted it was OK and she was glad to do it for me.
Now, she has managed to come up with four of them over the years, all just hands although the last one took her top off. I told my wife that she did, she asked me if I wanted to have full sex, which I admitted I really did but wouldn't because of her. Then she told me that was OK, too.
I admit to being torn between saying no and doing it.