It was only after recently a female friend of my husband commented on her that cuckolds are "bad performers" in bed which hinted on his sexual prowess. My husband got a little upset but he did not want to rebut this female since she was a casual friend from our social friend circle and not from swinging lifestyle. So, he said the more he discusses on this topic the more things unfold about us as a swinger couple!

But there was a lot in his mind to share and rebut which he decided to hold. When he discussed this with me then I too agreed with his thoughts that it was in anyway rude for any casual friend to comment on someone you recently met and if it was disclosed to her that he is a cuckold. Even if someone is a Cuckold & has reduced sexual prowess in bed, still it is not really said on his face. Every person has something extra when he/she lacks at something.

This incident led me to come here and vent out and write this blog so that it reaches to more such people who think that "Cuckold Husbands are less of a Man". In fact, I feel they are more of a man because it is very difficult for any husband to let his wife freely have sex with any man she wishes, regardless of the fact that he is comfortable with that man or not! It is a daring task to find appropriate men for his wife for intimate & sexual relationship. Such husbands need quite a heart to be able to watch their wives having sex with other men in front of them on a continual basis!

It is very natural to lose sexual spark after a few years of marriage within any couple, else the concept of ś year itch" would not even exist. This concept was derived after a lot of research and statistics taken from many couples. Thus, it is a known fact that most couples or at least one of the spouse in that couple lose sexual interest in the other partner which is normal. There is nothing to be embarrassed about. Also, it is not necessary that the man you are married to must always be able to satisfy you sexually always! This is a myth. That is the reason why couples like us are here on such websites looking for compatible swingers to connect and play with and I do not feel there is anything wrong in it and it should not be looked down upon as a demeaning or illegal act as long as the couple is happy doing it and there is no cheating and no one is hurt.

Cuckoldry is one such aspect where some couples get back the spark what they were lacking and in my opinion it is okay if there are husbands who become cuckold in the process. I feel they are SUPERMEN (cuck husbands) who can actually do it. It needs a lot of courage, resilience & dedication initially to be able to reach a point after which they start enjoying.

The transition from a being a normal husband to a cuckold husband is quite a stressful & embarrassing journey for a husband & it is not possible for a man who only thinks about himself and not his wife. Such husbands genuinely love their wives and are dedicated to their wife's pleasure and with time they also find pleasure in their wife's fun. It is a difficult task for such cuckold husbands to find compatible men online and then train them to be of your wife's interest and then present them to your wife for her approval and more...and then accept a complete submissive role in that relationship!

So, my appeal to all swingers is that never demean or embarrass or humiliate such husbands who are cuckolds and do not think that they are any less of a MAN. It is because they accepted to be cuckolded that you are able to get to sleep with so many men and are open to extramarital relationships with any other man you chose to, with your husbands approval! Could you have done that?


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  • Love the post, very well put. I know i cannot possibly do everything my wife needs and therefore am very open to letting her be satisfied by others. She, however is not as willing. Any ideas?

  • It's really up to the women. If she wants to be with other men. Its not something that you can force her into. If you think that she's not sexually satisfied then talk to her and let her know that it's okay with you.

  • Very well said. Before I married my wife she was sleeping around with a few guys. After we got married the sex was great. But after a couple of years I could tell that she was getting bored with fucking just me. I knew that she had an itch to be with someone else. She started telling me about a guy she was working with. I could tell that she was hot for him. I came right out and told her to fuck him if that's what she wanted. She didn't waste any time. Now over the years she's had a lot of boyfriends. She brings guys home and fucks them in are bed. She a good wife always takes care of my needs. I don't see anything wrong with her enjoying herself with other men. She always happy and so am i.

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  • I have shared myself f****** wife videos to my colleagues and friends. I ensure that these videos do not show our faces. Just pass over to them as downloaded from the net. Once in office I played one such video of me and wife in the action and got a thrill hearing their raw comments. One colleague commented that the body language of the man in the p*** seems to be yours and I retorted saying that I would be the happiest man to f*** such a gorgeous lady with big b**** and butts and would also like to lick her p**** and c** in her and all had a good laugh. Another friend commented about her big b**** and brown hairy p**** as juicy and w**** hole. Other one commented he fill f*** her all holes the whole day if given a chance. But surprising one colleague who knows my wife came to me when I was alone and told he knew that videos were made by me and the woman in it is your wife. I just told him that is your fantasy just to save my face. That day I f***** my wife with much vigor thinking of my colleagues comments.
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  • Or you could not care so much about what other people think at all. Live and enjoy your own life.

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