I have a major crush on my female gynecologist
I consider myself a heterosexual woman. I’m very happily married to a man and we have an awesome partnership. The only relationships I have ever been in have been with men. I have never been attracted to another female before. Acknowledged that another female was beautiful and cool? Sure. But never had any sexual feelings toward a woman. Yet I cannot stop thinking about/feeling attracted to my female OB/GYN. I think about kissing her. I think about getting her naked. I think about putting hands all over her body.
It’s seriously like a switch flipped during this past year when I was under her care while I was pregnant. She’s gorgeous. She’s funny. We have similar interests and hobbies. She’s got killer legs. She’s an excellent physician. If I didn’t feel this inexplicable sexual attraction to her, I’d think I just really wanted to be her friend.
I’m sure this is some weird, Freudian-esque/transference thing that I should unpack in a nice, long therapy session, but it’s seriously making me a little crazy. I have sex dreams about her. I think about her daily. I had an appointment with her a couple of weeks ago and I was damn near giddy (to go to the GYNECOLOGIST. Wtf.) to be in the same room with her. Clearly I would never, ever act on this or even say it out loud, but I had to vent somewhere.
Do I find a new doctor? How do I get over this idiotic crush?
I'd find another doctor. Stat.
Why not just ask her out? What do you have to loose? The worst that could happen is she says no.
Nothing wrong with having a crush on your doctor, but remember that you are your husband’s property and your pussy is his and only his until death do you part. So get used to it and spread ‘em like a good girl for your true master.