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Size Incompatibility
I'm dealing with an issue with my new boyfriend of three months. We just started finally having sex, and we're both 19. We were both virgins before we dated. The issue is that he's really big. I'm a small person, 4'10" tall and 95 lbs. He's 6'4" and 230. His dick looks like it's about 8" but of course I'm not going to measure the thing. It's just big.
The first time we fucked it hurt like hell. I had to tell him to slow down and I could only take about 3/4ths of him. He was sweet and went slow, but I could sense that he wanted to plow away. We've had sex a few times since, and it's always a little tough. For some reason it feels a little better to do doggy than missionary, but it's still uncomfortable. I haven't been able to have an orgasm from fucking him. His dick is too big.
We have had fun and orgasms from giving each other oral, which has been nice. But I'm concerned that fucking is never going to be good for either of us, due to size incompatibility. If anyone has gone through this issue, we could use some tips on how to make things better. He's such a nice guy and I'm in love with him, but omg I wish his dick was just 5" like a normal guy.
My ex boyfriend was around that size and it hurt the first few times but you'll eventually adapt to his size.
Tip: try cowgirl. You will be able to control how much you take better and it will be more dependent on your movements than his. Take only as much as you need and enjoy.