How do you approach mature women?
I'm a guy in my late 20's. I've recently realized I'm very attracted to older women, late 30s onwards. They're the kind of women I find intellectually most stimulating, and sexually more attractive (when I watch porn, it's usually about younger guys with older women).
Thing is, I don't know the first thing about approaching a mature woman with dating or sex in mind. In my context it's mostly been friends of my parents, superiors at work, teachers and such. All my partners so far have been girls my age or younger. Only once did I try to talk to a woman in her 40s at a coffee shop, and she was kind of condescending. Kind of like a mother talking to a lost kid.
Anybody with this kind of experience, or any advice?