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Did I do the right thing?
Did I give the right advice?
Okay so lets start of I'm a guy who's 18 not a virgin had many sexual encounters. So one day my sister who is 14 comes up to me and asks wether she should have sex with her boyfriend. Seeing how my parents don't like talking about this and are apposed to many things like this I try to answer the best I could which was this. " If you are asking me wether or not you shouldn't be doing it, if you have doubts or any kind of uneasiness she shouldn't. Also that if she was absolutely sure she should use protection." I usually have to be the father advice cause my father isn't that good at it.
I'm hoping for serious answers not some kind of immature childish answers. Thank you
She is under age so no
You gave her wonderful advice and you should be proud of yourself. Had you told her not to, well, she would have done it anyway and then never come to you for advice again. But because you were understanding and open with her, she'll trust you with other problems in the future which I'm sure you'll handle just as magnificently! Well done friend! A great brother indeed!
I think that was the best advice you could have given her, and just know that she will remember it every time a guy pressures her to have sex. You put the understanding in her that it is her decision and no one else, and that in the long run if she is uncomfortable that she shouldn't do it. You're telling her that you are confident she will make the right decision when the time is right and that trust itself is giving her the confidence to be able to make that decision, if that makes sense. Just don't turn her away if she comes back with more questions like that, answer her honestly like have before and it should turn out ok.