I've been married to my wife for 13 years. We dated for 2 years before we got married. The night before the last night we would be single, she asked if I was going to get laid my last night before we got married. I reminded her that it's bad luck to see the bride before the wedding. She said, "I wasn't talking about you and I having sex." I said, "I wasn't planning to cheat on you." She said, "I'm asking because Im getting laid tomorrow." I said, "Really?" She said, "Yep. Steve is coming over."
Steve is a life long friend of hers. She thinks he's had a thing for her but she's always been with someone. I said, "This isn't some mind game?" She said, "I'm totally serious. I can take pics if you want proof. So do you want to get laid before we get married." I said, "If you are, then yeah I guess." She said, "Any idea who?" I said, "Well, haven't arranged it but maybe Jennifer." Jenny is the last girl I dated before I met my wife. Stacy said, "Uh...your ex?" I said, "Yeah. She was pretty good in bed. Just a pain to live with."
So she indeed had sex with her friend Steve but I didn't have sex with Jenny. I had sex with my best man, Brad. He and I have fooled around a few times in the past. Just didn't know how to tell my future wife that I wanted to get fucked by another man.
So for a few years everything was cool. Stacy is hot headed and opinionated but nothing I couldn't handle. Sex was great and we fucked probably 3-4 times a week. Then we had a huge fight and I moved out. We didn't get divorced. I stayed with Brad. He was a welcome and much needed change of pace. Stacy and I were living apart for 8 months. Brad and I had sex almost every day.
About 6 months into us living apart, Stacy started to text. She said she missed me and wanted to work it out. We started to get together for dates but would go back to our separate places afterwards. Then after one date she suggested we get a hotel room. We had amazing sex. Then it dawned on me. I asked her why we didn't just have sex at the house. She said, "You really want to know?" I said, "Yeah." She said, "Youre absolutely sure? You won't get mad?" I said, "Whats there to get mad about?" She said, "Well, I'm living with Steve."
I said, "Like roommates?" She said, "No. Like lovers." I said, "You guys are having sex?" She said, "You and I haven't spoken for 6 months. I couldn't afford all the bills alone and he needed some place to stay." I said, "So why couldn't he have just slept in the spare room?" She said, "Because we've been having sex for a while now." I said, "How long?" She said, "About a year. Up until 6 months ago it was just like once a month kinda thing." I said, "And since we split up?" She said, "Just about every night. What about you? Are you sleeping with someone?" I said, "Yeah." She said, "One of the servers from the restaurant?" I said, "No. Brad." She said, "Oh wow. You're having sex with a guy? You like fucking a guy?" I said, "Not fucking him. He fucks me." She said, "Are you gay?" I said, "Gay? No. Bisexual? Very." She said, "I love you and I miss you. I want you to come home. I was a bitch and I'm sorry." I said, "What about Steve?" She said, "What about him?" I said, "He's gonna have to move out." She said, "Yeah." I said, "What about you sleeping with him?" She said, "I'll stop. Just make sure you give me a proper dicking. What about you?" I said, "I'll stop."
We got back together and I did stop sleeping with Brad. And for about 2 years having sex with Stacy was enough and satisfying. Until she didn't want it as much. I asked if she was sleeping with someone else and she said no and wanted to know why I was asking. I told her that we only have sex once a week. She said she's just not interested in it like she used to be and I had nothing to worry about.
But I was still horny all the time. So I started sleeping with one of the girls from work. I worked crazy hours. Open a couple days. Close a couple days. Double shifts. Claire and I were damn near work dating. Couldn't keep it a secret at work. And after work we would go to her house and have sex. Claire new I was married and didn't care. As far as she was concerned, I was her boyfriend. We had sex probably 5 times a week for over a year. Then the wife wanted to know why I stopped asking her for sex. I told her because I can only hear no so many times so why ask. She started to get suspicious and I didn't want to lose her so I broke it off with Claire.
5 months later I started sleeping with a different girl at the same restaurant. 4 times a week like clock work. Jessica and I got along great. Only problem was that she wanted me to take her out on dates. Then she wanted me to leave my wife for her. I just wasn't ready to do something like that. Jessica wanted a husband and I couldn't do that so after 9 months, we broke it off.
Then Stacy and I moved into a new house. Found out our neighbor is gay and single. Wanted me to visit him at night. Didn't care that I am married. He just told me he wanted me to come over, get naked with him and have sex. As much or as little as I wanted.
I thought about it then decided to do it. He and I have been having sex for 4 years now. 2-3 times a week every week. Stacy has to go out of town for the weekend a few times a year. It's for a legit work conference but I happen to know that when she goes she shares a room with a guy she works with. I can't really be mad because I've been cheating on her off and on our whole marriage. When she does go to her conferences, I stay the weekend with Jason. For 3 weekends a year, I'm gay.