More guys are at least bi
There are more guys who are at minimum bisexual than everyone realizes. It's ok to be a man that likes having sex with another man...but being in the closet. No reason for anyone to know your personal business.
I was in the closet for the longest time. I just didn't want to admit that I was sexually attracted to men. I'm a married man and my wife barely wants sex. I have a friend down the street who is gay and I have been having sex with for going on 4 years now. I thoroughly enjoy it too. With the wife it's just same old thing. With my bf, it's more erotic.