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ONE MORE TIME PLEASE
I am a 33 year old woman who has never experienced an Orgasm....until a few weeks ago...with a man who is engaged to another woman. I can't stop thinking about him and how bad I want that feeling again. He feels bad for cheating on his fiance so he wants to just be friends and not continue to mess around. I.cant.stop.thinking.about.that.feeling.
Okay let's back up. You are 33 and just had your first orgasm? Do you not know how to play with yourself? I was gyrating on vegetables in middle school, the first time I saw a penis I was thinking "Oh, guess that cucumber was a little to big for me". I have been shoving things into myself and rubbing my clit for twenty years. My husband and I were shopping one day and I was looking over the zucchini's, he leaned over and whispered that I should not get any ideas. I picked one of the biggest ones in the bin and told him he was in for a thrill tonight. His jaw was wide open as I pushed that thing up into me later on.
It would be a good idea if you start being comfortable with your own body. There are a lot of books available about how to get to know your own body and how to be comfortable with it. You should definitely learn what gives you pleasre so you can teach any future lover what you need.
BUT! he has had you, made your eyes roll to the back of your head.....he will want to fuck you again....when "he" wants to fuck you, at which you can make yourself available. In the meantime, you need to explore your pleasure place and learn the art of masturbation.
Well that's understandable, because not to many men know how to use their dicks when it comes to sexing a woman... for most dudes it's more like a wham bam thank you maam situation.
33 years old and never had an orgasm!? Good God, woman, either learn to love your own body or find a partner that isn't incompetent in bed! Its probably best if you let the engaged man go, there are other men out there who can give you that exact same feeling.