Cheating on the wife
I've been married 12 years. We were together about a year before getting married. We were sexually attracted to each other from the get go. We fucked damn near daily for the first 3 years or so. She got pregnant about a month before the wedding. You damn good considering I always came inside her.
She got pregnant and we still had a lot of sex. She was even hornier. She would masturbate in her shower in the morning before we both went to work. She would masturbate after she got home and we would fuck before bed. Once the baby was here and she went back to work all that stopped. Sex dropped off to once a week. At first, I'd just masturbate in the morning after she left but that wouldn't be enough.
So I've been cheating on her off and on for about 9 years. 3 women and 2 men over the years. First was a coworker. She knew I was married. Knew I didnt want a divorce. We got along great and would just go to her place after work and have sex. That would be 2-3 times a week for about 8 months. Would have kept going but her baby's daddy wanted to get back together.
Second woman was also a coworker at w different store. She hit on me. She knew I was married. She didn't care. We got along great. Too great. We would go on dates. Had to make up reasons to be out. We had sex like 4 times a week for over a year. Had to stop because wife started getting suspicious. Had to jump through hoops to see my mistress. Just wasn't worth it.
Guys have been sporadic. Had an old high school buddy that just liked sucking my dick. Knew I was married and just wanted me to text, come over, get my dick sucked and bounce. Did that anywhere from once a week to once every other week. Just depended on my mood. No gf. Just the wife. She had gotten a horny streak. We were having sex once a week. My buddy was sucking me off about once a week. That lasted a very long time. Like 2 years.
Then we moved. Wife started just griping and bitching. Not about anything I was doing. Just in general. Complaints about various things. For about the last 3 years, sex is anywhere from once every other week to once every other month. Not enough! Not because I'm having sex with other ppl and don't want to fuck her. Because I do everything for her and try and she says no.
I've had a girlfriend for the last 2 years. Like full on girlfriend. Wife never wants to go out. I'm still in like with my wife. I'm in love with my gf. Why am I not divorcing my wife? I don't wanna pay child support. We get along decent, so ATM I'll just have my cake and eat it too