Trying new things
So my girlfriend and I have been having sex for a few months now, and it's great. We both love each other and so we are both pleasured quite a lot, it's usually very intense. Before any of this happened though, we had a large talk about kinks and fetishes and such like.
We found out that both are into biting and general sado-masochism, but also into a bit of dominance and submission. So today, we tried some BDSM. Not anything insane like a gimp-suit or something, just with my hands tied at the wrists to my bedpost behind my back.
I'm not gonna lie, I have not moaned in pleasure so much in my life, it was fucking incredible. I felt this indescribable urge to be used as a plaything, to be dominated, and she fulfilled it amazingly.
Looking forward to tying her up ;)
Talking and learning or being comfortable enough to express desires without being judged leads to great sex!
Good for you. The wife and I got into S&M years ago. She is my sub, she begs for hard whippings, spankings, and joint torture (ankles in particular... I don't know why?) and I happily oblige. Funny thing to me is she is a RN in a level 1 trauma unit, so she sees all sorts of bad shit, you'd think she'd be turned off by it. But when she's had a really bad shift, that's when she wants me to "release" the stress. Have fun!
You will enjoy it, really great if she is the sub