Lets be clear. I love the "stories" on this site, but my question is sincere. I don't expect "useful" advice but I'll put it out there because I don't know where else to ask. A few nights ago I was out of town, staying in a motel. It was late and I was texting my wife. I have been married to the same great gal for 9 years. I was also texting one of her friends at the same time. (Okay some explanation) My wife genuinely cares about people. And gets way to involved in their lives trying to help them etc... So I was technically in a three-way texting. My wife, her friend, and me were all texting each other. Anyway as my wife is getting ready for bed she sends me a picture of her boobs. As were texting I'm "playing" with myself and after awhile snap a pic of myself and send it to... Her friend. (It truly was unintentional). In fact I didn't even realize the mistake until her friend texts me back with the message, "Kinda' small but thanks for sharing." My first thought was, "Oh shit!" As I am wondering how I am going to explain this to my wife, her friend texts me again and asks, "So is that it?" Followed almost immediately with, " I want to see more." I did not send more, but my dilemma is this: My wife's friend is clearly not her friend, but I can't tell her without telling on myself. Or does my wife know and is waiting to see if I will say anything? And how long before my wife's friend tells her other friends? I can't sleep.