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I have a little problem
My girlfriend and I have a great sex life!! However, I have this little problem. Our sex is so good, I think about it all the time. This makes me horny and I jerk off. Sometimes this makes me jerk off so often, I can't get hard for her at night. I try and try to control my jerking off. But most often, I cannot control myself. I have tried everything I can think of. Cold showers, involving myself in activities, jerking and no cumming, etc. Any suggestions???
Take your time with her, don't rush through. I had a similar thing when started dating a woman who just turned me on from the first night. She was so damn beautiful, sexy, fed my preferences and fetishes, and we got along extremely well. There were times I'd think about the sex we had, how she got me going, and, fetish-wise, her long, always-polished (usually gold or pink) nails.
I'd get myself so revved up, I'd worry about being able to stay hard when the time came, so..I slowed down during sex with her, so I'd maintain my erection instead of it being dead on arrival. It's all mental. You can do it.
Yes, try letting her jerk you off! Then if you don't cum, maybe you can slip it to her and both get off!!
No, the problem occurs while she is not around. I spend all day while she is at work thinking about her body and our sex and jerk off, over & over.