Sacrificing a Friendship
Is sex really worth sacrificing a friendship? I've known my best friend who is a guy for 7 months now. He's amazing, nice, caring, and often goes out of the way to do things for me. The problem is everytime we're together there's sexual tension. I know he wouldn't mind if I asked him and he surely would accept, but what would our friendship be after that? I really want this guy to be my first (yes I'm a virgin). I mean he's 6'2 , a part of my schools o-line, has the most amazing smile, we have lots of things in common, and I overall wouldn't regret it if he was my first. How would I even go about asking him or initiating it?
Try and get a moment you two are on your own. Maybe light some candles, dim the lights. Make eye contact. Hopefully he will be brave enough to kiss you. Once he knows you don`t mind let his hands wander and get you naked. Be open with him as he turns you on. Tell him how much you want him. It will be special because good friends don`t hide secrets. You might regret it if you don`t have him. Make love. You will love it.