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Serious sexual question.
I'm 21, I love my boyfriend, we have a good relationship. Sex is good, but he's terrible with foreplay and to be honest it's killing me. He's never gone down on me, and doesn't really pay much attention to my breasts. Doesn't kiss my neck....you know, all the good stuff that gets a girl revved up. I've tried to steer him in that direction, but he's a male. :/
The sex it's self is pretty good, no complains there. Is it so bad to want to pre-game a little? I make sure he's good and ready before we have sex, he on the other hand no so attentive.
Advice?
Come to butthead.
Can I have a go at it!!?? I bet I can please you big time!!
I'm sorry, this guy sounds like an idiot. Doesn't go down on you or play with your breasts? One of life's great pleasures is going down on a woman, the scent and taste, nothing like it. I actually prefer giving a woman oral than getting it myself. And what kind of a guy doesn't like playing with boobs? I'd get a new boyfriend. There are plenty men like me that know what a woman wants and needs. ;-)
He is right, going down on anyone is the greatest thing ever! If he won't eat at the "Y" then say good by!!
I agree with the first comment and dumping him. If I had a girl, I'd definitely be all over her & especially sucking on her boobs nonstop. Many of us would take good care of you.
Just tell him. As a guy it's really easy to get carried away and get straight into it, because of course we get ready very quickly, and once we're ready we want to go straight to sex. You have to slow him down, get him into the foreplay. Tell him what you like, and what you'd like him to do. Might help to get some chocolate body paint and put some on your neck, around your groin etc - show him where you want the attention, and give positive reinforcement.
Dump him...you deserve better.
Simple, cut him off. Explain to him that, once he gets with the program--that being that your orgasms are every bit as important as his are--he can have all the sex he wants. Until then, however, the candy store is CLOSED.
Advice? talk to him and tell him that you'd like some foreplay too. after that, if he doesn't even try, then find a boyfriend who cares that you enjoy it too. cause he's just worried about his own pleasure, that's all. and if he does try, but doesn't try very hard, or isn't good at it, then help him along. you didn't come with instructions and we can't read minds. but like i said, if he doesn't try, then he doesn't care about you.
LOLLLLLLLLLLL, well show him how to do it okay .....
Just tell him straight out, i hate it when a women does not tell me what she likes or does not like, we are not mind readers and every woman is different as to what they like in bed. i think you should just tell him what you want and how u want it and he should be fine