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HELP HES A NYMPHOOOO!!!
My boyfriend is great we just started dating a few weeks ago, he is just, well, simply, perfect in my eyes. Sex is great. The problem is I never have been able to orgasm, so it feels good to me but I fake it for him. He wants to have sex over and over again all day everyday. I hesistate because it doesnt feel good. UGH.
Guys are different, some dicks feel better than others.
This is why women shouldn't fake orgasms. You're not doing yourself or your partner any favours. He thinks he's doing just fine and then wonders why you're losing interest. You've got to be a little more assertive. You have every right to get off too but you've got to communicate your needs effectively, he's not a mind reader.
That's makes both of us, I never orgasm for once with my current boyfriend, i only fake it to make him happy, he is not good in doing it but i can't get sex else where also.I talked to him but he seemed embrassed instead of changing. so i have no idea if i'll be like that forever.
You two are both idiots. If you are comfortable enough to be honest with your partner then you deserve not to cum and when you are honest and your partner doesn't care enough to improve for you; then you are not with the right person.
You also need to learn to tell your partner what feels good to you and help him improve in bed just as much as he needs to pay attention to your needs.
Fuck off.
Let me just ask if you are able to orgasm in other ways and with other men? If so, then maybe it's just the way he's doing it. You haven't made mention of his size so I'm assuming he's average. Women have many different erogenous zones. Maybe he's just not making contact with yours. I've known women that get off just playing with their nipples. Of course there's the clitoris. And on some women it's a point deep inside. You'll need to experiment with him to find out where he has to touch for your pleasure. I can't see your relationship going on for many years to come without you enjoying it.