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I met my wife about a year and a half ago and we were married about 3 months ago, I am 53 and she is 25, of course I have always fully understood the dynamic of our relationship.
Before we met my wife had a relationship with another man and they have a child together, my step son. I have since come to learn that her "babies' daddy" has many other children and "babies' mamas", at least 5 others. All through the time we were dating I was aware that she was still seeing him as well and spending time with him, as our relationship as gone on she will say that they're spending time with their son and so on, but I am absolutely not welcome at their gatherings.
Her "babies' daddy" has never been out right disrespectful to me but has never spoken more than a few words to me, mostly just looks at me as a punk.
Yesterday I came home from work a few hours early and found him at my house fucking the hell outta my wife. I could hear it from the front door. I let myself in quietly and he never slowed down or noticed me. I let myself back out and waited in the car until he left.
Should have joined them. You obviously wanted to, since there seems to be very little anger in your confession. It’s ok if you wanted a taste, lots of guys out there like you. Talk to your wife, she will set it all up.
You should have stayed and watches them. When they realized you were there you had two choices. Either let them continue allowing you to be part of the fun or send him packing. If the later let him still see his son, but only with you present.