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My bestie
This is weird. I’m a girl in highschool but anyway.
I really have weird feelings about my bestie who’s my age. She’s got a bf and she’s straight and so am I but idk. I’m jealous of her bf a bit. Like if she tells me about their seggs life I just… idk. I feel some type of way.
Like I think about her when I play with myself often. I’ve seen her naked a million times in change rooms and showers and she’s just got a really hot body. Like I’d love to be the one to lick her pussy. I just don’t know how to tell her. The most we ever did was kissed when she was drunk and for her it was like an “I LOVE YOU BITCH” kiss for me it made my panties instantly wet to have her mouth on me, her body pressed against me.
Idk what to do?
It's cool that you're bi-curious and willing to see how fun it is. But let's just get the obvious thing out of the way...
Even if she was bi too, she probably won't feel the same way, because she's already dating someone. Period. You probably need to move on.
It'll be sexually frustrating, so go find an interesting girl or guy instead, gotta get your kicks somewhere to replace fantasizing about the bestie. I know that's easier said than done, finding a date is hard enough, and bi girls don't exactly wear signs saying "I'm bi!"... but boy or girl, you don't know someone's interest in you until you ask. But something's got to change, and it's not gonna be your bestie's mind.
No idea if you've got flirting skills, though I find dropping a casual "you know, you're a pretty cool person, I kind of like you" is an easy way to get them thinking "wait, did I hear that right? what kind of like? do I like them?"... then next time I see em, follow up with a more direct question (in your case, if it's a girl, maybe: "So random question, how do you feel about dating girls? Yeah just, hypothetically, if I were to ask you out on a date somewhere, think it could be fun?"). Most women are straight, many are not.
Be hungry. Go get what you need (from someone available).
And next time your bestie's drunk, you can always say "drinking is making me feel things again. you know, last time we made out, I thought it was pretty hot - but you're all happy with the bf, so I won't press anything - but so you know, I think you're pretty hot." She'll might go "sorry, insert excuse here, but thank you!" or maybe she'll notice you too. Don't count on it tho.
It's NOT weird ...it's BORING !!!
🥱YAWN🥱
Be honest with her...watch a porn video with her....Go for it
Make a move tell her how you feel about her she'll most likely go for it. Just remember if it stinks don't eat it
Lean into it.