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Sexless Marriage
Before I got married, I thought it was nuts that married couple could go 30 days without sex, and here I am, several years into mine, and me and my wife probably have it not even 10 times a year (it's been several months as of now). The truth is, she's not withholding per se- I'm just not interested. I'd rather jerk off to memories of a previous encounter or to porn. The routineness of our life makes it easy plus her alpha attitude turns me off. It's not sexy and I'm a laid back, hippie spirit that just doesn't have the time to out alpha her, plus, the sex has always been okay and not great.
I'm not cheating but I can't say the intent isn't there (I did once a few years ago and that's a story in itself). I just don't go out much outside of work and there's not much to cheat with on the job. The salt and pepper has set in but I think I'm still fairly attractive and part of my motivation for getting back fit is to appeal to other women.
If the opportunity comes, I'm taking it. We're probably on the fast track to divorce and I'd be fine with that outside of the impact on the kids 😕
My wife and I are going on 5, not 1 time have we had intercourse. She'll wank me off half assed or sometimes give me a BJ, never finishes. I have tried everything even offering to clean up the uum with my mouth after every session. She makes me do thst but never on or in her pussy. We're 36 year married and im not happy, but due to ED could never please another any ore so guess I've just given up. Good luck, id love to find a liked situation buddy and play with each other. Nothing with any of my friends. Even admitted to one buddy I thought... maybe and he was nice, just said no thanks. We're still friends, thank God. It was ehen we were drinking and im sire he thinks it was alcohol talking.
I haven't fucked my wife in almost 10 years. She has gotten heavy and it hurts when we have sex. I jerk off a lot and she will rub my balls while I jerk off and she lets me cum in her mouth every time.