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Not sure what to tell him
I'm 28 and finally dating a good guy. We might marry in the next year, though he hasn't asked yet. I will ask him, if he doesn't. He knows that I have a sexual history, of course, and has asked about it.
There is some stuff I don't want to tell him. I went to college out of state and through personal ads became a roommate with a couple who was into BDSM, although I didn't find that out until I moved in. It was heavy grooming. At the time, I was taking lithium for my bipolar disorder and I was basically used as a fuck toy. I regret those years, but to be honest it was very pleasurable too. That went on for almost three years, but I lived rent free as long as I was willing to be used.
I've had every kind of sex that one could imagine. K9 action too.
I just want to turn the page and start over with my guy, but I feel like the shit I've been through keeps chasing me. I don't want to talk about it with him.
It's absolutely none of my current BF business who I lost my virginity to.
It's just none of his goddamn business, period. This is America....mind your own goddamn business.
My gf used to live with a couple that included her in their sexual activity. She was a willing participant but said it was a daily thing. Sometimes it was him watching her and his wife and sometimes it was his wife watching her and her husband. On weekends they would sometimes get drunk and then it was a marathon. She said between him and his wife her pussy would be used for hours. She said they would go down on her, fuck her with his dick, their fingers and sex toys. Their game was to make her cum as many times as they could. I asked her how many times? She said she never counted but she was sure between the two of them they probably made her cum a dozen times. She said her body was so wore out because once she started cumming they would do things to try and keep her cumming. She said one particular weekend they put something in her drink and it made her super sensitive. It made her cum easily. She said after about her 4th orgasm they teased her bringing her to the edge of orgasm and then stopping. After doing this several times she lost all control and started squirting. She said that had never happened to her before. She said just when she thought it was over they would do more and she would squirt some more. She said the bed was soaked and her body was shaking she had squirted so much. She said all she could do was lay there with her legs apart begging them to stop. They would start on her vulnerable pussy again. They enjoyed watching her squirt and she couldn’t stop squirting. She said she never cum so much. But she did live there rent free
Don't tell him anything, you are right, your history is your to keep and if you want it to remain private then that is your right.
Ok so my husband has no idea that by twelve I had had sex with my older brother on three separate occasions and a bunch of times with my boy cousin too.
During middle school and high school the two boyfriends I had were only allowed to do anal sex to me because I was not on birth control.
Why haven't I told him?? It's because it really is none of his business. I did not know him back then. Had he insisted on knowing I would not have married him. If it starts to be an issue, we'll get divorced, it's not like he is the only person on the planet. Respect my privacy exactly like I respect his name ..if not... then good-bye
because I will not compromise on this.
Please do not email anyone On here They are all scammers..... That being said If you truly love each other he will accept you No matter what you've done in the past if he doesn't accept you & your past, that means he doesn't love you.... so as they say there's plenty of fish in the sea...
Agree with this 100%. And below to talk to a therapist. You are who you are and your past is also part of you. It does not define you. You define you and what your future is. If this guy can't see that, many other guys can. Best of luck on your future life. Enjoy, be kind, have fun.
I can help you mrd4725@proton.me
You should see a therapist to work through your trauma. Your past does not define your future. Get some help so you can leave it behind.
Leave the past in the past. Start a new chapter