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So I've asked this question to friends and got mixed answers. So I'm throwing it out to you guys! But first a quick condensed back story for context.
I was hot for a coworker. We are friends as well. She since moved away but we occasionally text still. She has a boyfriend. She's come back to visit twice since she moved. Her boyfriend can't miss work so he hasn't come with her. Last time she came she got a hotel close to me. She was saying how cool it is etc. Then she invited me to come over and check it out one night after I get off work. My mind went wild at the idea obviously, but I didn't get a chance to take her up on the invite.
Ok. Here's what I'm curious about. I wouldn't be comfortable with my girlfriend inviting a guy to a hotel she got out of town while I stay home. Seems reasonable right? I feel like the only reason to invite a guy to your hotel at night would be for hooking up and not to just see how cool it is. I could be projecting here so I want some opinions because she will be here again soon and very well might ask me again. It could very well be platonic and a friendly lets hang out invite. Or it could be her playing innocent until I get into her room.
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I asked my wife about this. She said if the friend wanted it to all stay platonic, she would ask to meet at a bar or restaurant or park, not in her hotel room. If she is asking for you to come to the hotel and do any more than pick her up outside to go somewhere else, or just meet in the lobby, she wants to fuck. My wife travels a lot for work. I asked her if she ever asked a guy to her hotel room. her answer was yes. I asked her if they fucked. Again the answer was yes. It's all cool, I had a tryst when I worked out of town for a couple of months too. Actually turned me on and we fucked like teenagers. So...Thanks.
This is what I think. But I wasnt sure if I was rationalizing just because that's what I want.
Agreed. If she is inviting you to her room, she's interested in more than just chit chat.
We shall see
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