Its a lot!
I am getting closer and closer to taking the first small steps towards seeing if this fantasy of mine/ours can be something we can do for real. Me and my boyfriend have talked about how we could bring it up subtlety, using innuendo and jokes to plant the idea or to gauge her reactions to see if it should just end there or if we should very slowly keep moving forward.
Lots of the more wild things we've done sexually started as fantasy. We play off each other and we push each other and it turns us on. The more we lean into the fantasy the more we convince each other that we should actually do it. This particular fantasy is one I brought up and it's the most taboo one yet. It started small and playful and now it's this crazy thing I want really bad. I want my mom and my boyfriend to fuck. I know she's thought about it but I'm not sure she actually would. Maybe she would if she knew everyone was open, honest, and on the same page. Like all the things he and I have done we have boundaries and some rules. There's understanding of each others expectations and limits. I think if we did all that, then we could do it. We would like to hear from people that have done this. Not in a cheating way or not necessarily as structured as our idea, but just if anyone crossed this line before.
My wife fucked our daughters BF. It was after a pool party at our house. Daughter was passed out drunk. Wife and I were pretty drunk but awake. Everyone else had gone home. I dared my wife to flirt with the boyfriend when they both were in the pool. You know how things go when people are drunk. Bathing suits came off and he ended up fucking her from behind in the shallow end of the pool. I got to watch from the kitchen window. ( Wife and I swing, so it was not a big deal to me, but I did jerk off while watching. ) When he was done, I went out and and said "Honey, what happened to your bathing suit?" Acting like I didn't know. Then I got in the pool and took over. Fucked my wife while he acted like he wasn't watching and was playing with his phone, but he well knew we were fucking.
Alcohol removes inhibitions. It won't make people do something they don't want to do, but it will allow them to do something that they are afraid to do but want to do.
My girlfriend fucked her moms boyfriend a few times. Ridiculously hot!!!