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Am I a masturbation Addict?
My girlfriend says that I’m addicted to masturbation because of my overactive need for sexual stimulation. I don’t think I am but she says that I need help and nobody needs to cum as often as I do. I’m not sure what to do because I want to be with her but I also don’t want to give up masturbating.
She doesn’t know that I’m online as much as I really am. I just can’t help myself. My needs are too strong.
She said that she only masturbates about once a week if she’s not having sex and when we do it more she doesn’t do it at all. I find that hard to believe. I simply can’t imagine going without cuming a few times every day. I’ve been doing it since I was 9 so it’s part of my daily routine that started half my life ago.
Do any of you older guys have advice for me and do you think I have a problem?
Please help with any real advice.
I am 58 and I masturbate every day if I have a chance. Nothing feels as good as a slow pumping session, up and down my shaft, lube a mix of honey and glycerine, feeling my balls tighten as they produce semen in anticipation of the release. I like to squeeze somewhat and pull them as this definitely makes the climax more intense. I like how my testicles pulse and throb when I finally do give in to the pressure and my nuts unload their contents making my load rush up through my cock and shoot spurt after spurt of hot seed. I definitely miss the intensity and trajectory of my teen days, as Peter North once said, it always feels good....
I had a young gf who thought masturbation was weird and until we met she had never had an orgasm. She was 19 and so beautiful which I thought was a shame since she had missed out on so many years of orgasmic pleasure.
I began concentrating on her pleasure with my tongue fingers and allowing her on top to grind her clit into my pubic bone. She learned that she was multi orgasmic and they were mind blowing beautiful for the most part.
I bought her a book called nice girls do. It helped her to realize that masturbation was good and she began to go it with me mutually. She fell in love with her new talent and as a bonus she became intrigued with watching me. We made videos of each other’s masturbation and kept them for when we were apart.
We dated for two years then parted. We hooked up again seven years ago. Now she’s my beautiful wife.
Keep jerking my man. Get her some professional help and go to counseling together. Don’t be afraid to tell the therapist the honest truth about your feelings and your masturbation history. I did it in counselling with my wife long ago and the therapist explained that I was normal but with a higher than average sexual appetite. She suggested that my wife try masturbating with me which has become a now frequent occurrence that we both enjoy.
She’s wrong. Some of us need to cum a lot. I too began as a preteen and multiple times a day every day until I discovered girls then it became more intense with long sessions. I’m 46 now and I still need a great deal of pleasure and orgasms. Maybe you are like some of us who have a high testosterone level and can’t help what we crave.
I am 50 and masturbate 3-4 times a day. My wife knows I do and she is fine with it as long as I still have sex with her when she wants it. I have been doing that since I was 12 or 13. Not a big deal, jerk away.