GF just told me she's bi 3 months before wedding

My gf of 3 years just informed me she's bi three months before we're to get married. Here's the crazy part.
She's been having sex with her long time bff and the girl that's planning to be her MOH. Also, she doesn't want to break up or call off the wedding. She's telling me we're too far into planning and both families would get mad. She's wanting to establish terms before we get married. She still wants to have sex with her bff anytime she wants. I was in shock when she dropped these demands. Being a smart A I asked if about three-ways even though her bff is not attractive. She got mad and told me she knew her bff would never agree to having sex with me, she doesn't like me and doesn't want us getting married anyway.
That night she started messaging. I know her friend was with her. She had more 'demands'. She wanted the flexibility and freedom to hookup with anyone after we get married, boy or girl. I asked if I was allowed the same 'flexibility' but with other women. I got all caps NO!
I told her we needed to discuss this in person. She replied traditional marriage is gone and this is not uncommon in marriages today and she doesn't want to be held captive. Here's the crazy part. I asked if we should just call things off and go our separate ways. She told me her parents plan to downsize soon so breaking up is not an option for her right now. I finished renovating my grandparents 2 bedroom house and I just moved in.

I've talked to a few of my friends that are not married but have girlfriends but not very serious. They told me their girlfriends still hookup with other girls on the side but they also get an occasional three way but again my friends don't see any of their girlfriends as 'long term' either. Just having a fun time and nothing long time.

I'm more of a traditional person. This has gone too far and I've already made up my mind to break up and call off the wedding.
My question for anyone to answer on here.
Is it true that this arrangement is common with marriages today?

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