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Time to dump my bf!!
We’ve been together 4 yrs and my bf broke the news he booked a cabin at hot springs for valentines day. i’m 31 & he is too. he did it without telling me first. he said ‘i gave you notice so you can take off the next day.’ not my issue. he didn’t tell me before hand is my issue. he also reserved a private hot springs experience & since the place is remote, he hired a local culinary student to come to our cabin to cook dinner. this is the freaky part.
the strange & scary part is how he’s telling me. each day he leaves for work he leaves a pink envelope on my phone. the first day had the reservations for the cabin, day two was the reservations for the hot springs experience, day three was a private dinner for two by the culinary student.. this is why i need to dump and run. yesterday i got a small pink box with a black dress and today i got a box with a porn set. you know a matching red bra & panty set with garter and red nylons! wtf! the note told me my final present will be given on valentines day at dinner! wtf!
after 4yrs i had no idea he was this controlling what i wear and when i go. i’m sure he is expecting sex that night. i’m so turned off and i’m going to cut him off.
since he’s obviously insane, i stopped staying the night with him & moved back with mom & dad. should i cut ties now or just wait till feb 13th? this guy needs a lesson taught. btw somehow my mom is against me. she is taking up for him!!!!
Find some one better , who is honest and open with you
What kind of comment is that?
Did you read this post?
They were together 4 years & living together. Sounds like he was planning a romantic weekend and could possibly propose marriage on this trip.
Clearly the OP is looking for any excuse to run from commitment & growing up.
The only compassion I will give to this girl is that her mother did a bad job raising her to act like a lady.
btw; I'm female/51, professional career, married for 30 years, mother of 4 & grandmother of 2.
What the heck is wrong with you?!?! The guy plans a great romantic surprise for you, and you call it controlling? You're very strange, prudish, and dare I say the controlling one, wow! Seek help, most women would love that whole scenario!
YOU DONT KNOW! YOU ARE RUDE AND MEAN!
I think you are the control freak not him. Get over yourself. You do know you can be replaced right???
It would be a shame to waste the weekend he worked so hard to put together. Maybe your mom could go in your place. See if she'll fit in the lingerie.
WHY WOULD MY MOM GO WITH HIM?
Why not?? Lol
THIS IS SERIOUS AND YOU ARE MAKING FUN!
I agree with the other poster, he's trying to be romantic, not controlling. He's probably looking to spice things up after 4 years of always having to get your permission for anything new. Unfortunately, your styles don't mesh. I don't see this working out, so don't string him along, break up now.
HE IS A POS!! I BLOCKED HIM YESTERDAY!
You are a cunt. He's trying to be romantic. Try talking to him. He's better off without you.
YOU ARE RUDE! I WILL NOT TALK TO HIM! NO MAN SHOULD ACT THAT WAY!!
He might be fucking your mom??