Abused wife
I’m a 39 year old guy that is married to a 33 year wife. My wife and her sister were abused by her dad from the time they were 8 till they were 14. I didn’t know this till after i got with my wife and she decided to tell me. I had no inclination due to the fact she didn’t show it. She is very good in bed and love to fuck her. After she told me. I thought to myself that you either get a freak in the sheets or someone that doesn’t want or like sex. But I got the freak! Well over the last 2 years of our marriage. Things have gone down hill. I feel when we got together she acted like a freak to get me hooked. Now she doesn’t want sex very much, won’t entertain a 3 some, gangbang, any fetish, not even fuck one of my friends so I can watch. Our relationship has gone down hill and I have become depressed and angry over it. I feel for the abused. I do. But it’s like this issue has reared it ugly head and she in a sense makes me live the trauma too. This is going to sound selfish but I have needs and im tired of the whip lash in our relationship. I am still young and want a normal relationship that has sex in it. Because of it. I have cheated on her and she caught me every time. But she said I’m just adding to the trauma. I don’t know what to do. I love her but I’m at the end of rope. Because I don’t get sex or entertain some of my kinks. I find myself watching porn and jacking off consistently. That gets old. I want a woman I can fuck the shit out of and a warm pussy to fill.
My Dad helped me to be the freak I am today. He taught me how to suck dick and how to take dick at a young age. I love letting my boyfriend watch me take dick especially his friends dick both of them fuck me together. I say all that to say get you a side bitch like me and fuck her brains out and go back to your boring wife happy. BTW: My pussy is so wet thinking of you Daddy
She’s damaged goods and always will be. She wants to relive the abuse over and over, it’s the only way she feels wanted and loved. So do it.
You want your wife to participate in a "3 some, gangbang, any fetish, not even fuck one of my friends so I can watch", and you are surprised that your sex life with her has gone downhill? If it was me I'd have already divorced your sorry ass
Sounds like you're the problem. When dating, women want to please you to no end. If you get serious many want just the 2 of you to be together. Since you're forcing your kinks on her she's feeling less attracted to you. I'm sure she is just comfortable and don't wanna leave but deep down yall are done. She's done with you as you can't be a real man and show her emotion. You just want to fuck and can't be a man and just make love to her. Try cutting out the bullshit, step up and be a man! If you can! If not someone will!
You were doing good here until the “real man” shame tactics and the “show your emotions” BS. Nothing turns a woman off faster than an emotional man.
Fuck off Dr Phil
She wants you to just grab her and fuck her, while she says no…just like when her dad fucked her. Next time she says no, just say thst you’re gonna fuck her hard to have her dad feel good. It’s what she wants, to feel desired she needs to be used.
Good advice if you're done with the relationship! Good luck with all that! I'd shank you for trying this shit!
Actually that’s spot on.
Yes! Do her like her dad did.