I have a dilema
I've met a cute guy on grindr we've been "dating" for a couple months now and he claims he's not in the closet but he doesn't bring me around his friends or family. I want to pursue things with him but I'm afraid I'm his little secret and he's just using me for sex. I've noticed he has deleted pics of us from his phone which is a red flag to me. I've gone far and beyond for him, I know he really likes me I think he's just scared to come out. He says we have the best sex he's ever had, he was hesitant about kissing in the very beginning but he's kissing me regularly now. Idk, it's just so hard, he's super hot, like almost too good to be true so maybe I'm over thinking it.
You are just his fuck toy, that’s all. Get used to it. He doesn’t want his family or friends to meet you. You mean nothing to him, but a naive fuck buddy.