Is my husband having a gay affair?
My husband and I have been married for almost 20 years and I think it’s a happy marriage. But something has been happening lately that has me concerned. Once or twice a week for about 2 months now, in the middle of the night when he’s asleep and dreaming, he calls out the name David and says things like “fuck me” or suck it” or “oh fuck yes” similar sexual phrases, very clear, not mumbling. To my knowledge he has no friend or co-worker named David. I asked him about this a few times when it’s happened but he either dismisses it or laughs it off or says I’m dreaming myself.
Now I know dreams down always make sense and you can’t assign too much to them. But this is recurring and quite specific. What do I do? I considered recording it for him to hear but don’t want him feeling threatened or embarrassed if it really is just innocent dreaming. I need some advice without revealing this to anyone that knows my husband.