Looking for crossdressing suggestions

I am an overweight older male. I have recently started dressing up at home. I love how the dresses feel on me. I do not think I am a girl, I just like dressing up
I also realize I am an overweight older male so looking good is out of the question.
I want to dress up and go out in public; but not sure where would be a good place.
I live in a rural largely conservative area.
Now, I am starting to lose weight. I have decided to buy a nice dress that will fit when I meet my goal weight.
I want to wear it to a nice restaurant or bar.
I want to be comfortable when I do it
Any suggestions on going out in public?

Feb 25

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