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I cant ask for what i want
I’m way too shy to ask. He’s already done it before plenty of times. But I want my boyfriend to pull me over his knee and spank my bare butt. I want it so bad but he never does it because he thinks I shouldn’t like punishment. He doesn’t understand that it can be both a punishment and a little bit arousing, and in my opinion it should. It’s not my fault I get wet during a spanking, and it doesn’t make the spanking less effective. It’s still very humiliating, and whether or not the humiliation contributes to my arousal is irrelevant, I feel. If he humiliated and degrades me and I obey but get wet, does that mean I’m not being obedient enough? I think it can be a real punishment even if I get a thrill from the embarrassment
I got a spanking for my 19th birthday. We were living overseas, and my husband was in the field, been home with the baby and I was getting sad because it felt like I was so alone.
I'd just put the baby to sleep, and I had a knock at the door, it was a friend of hubby, he had a little chocolate cake and a present. He was going to leave but I asked him to stay and keep me company for awhile.
We opened a bottle of wine and talked, he said that I ought to open my present, which was a nice sweater. He said no big deal he didn't want to think that I was forgotten, a few more drinks and he mentioned if I'd had a birthday ritual preformed.
I was like what's that ? Come here and I'll show you, and that quick he spun me around and put me over his lap. Then he gently rubbed my butt and tapped me softly, and said one. Now I'm laughing and teasing and my head was slightly spinning and it was fun. After 2 more gentle taps, he said that the real ritual should be preformed this way and he slipped my panties down so smoothly I hardly noticed until he said what a fine looking ass I had and then gave me a slap. That warmed up my butt and I started to wiggle, expecting another smack, but it had come. I looked at him, stare at my butt and he took finger and explored my pussy.
I'm getting turned on and I moaned, and he stopped fingering me and gave me a hard smack.
I know at the end of this I had a tear, he looked at me, scooped me up and took me to the bedroom and we fucked all nite.
I used to be a real brat. I am an upper level executive in banking and am used to being in charge. My husband took me home once after being rude in front of friends and really gave it to me. I was sobbing when he finished. He explained his future expectations as he punished me. I was furious and embarrassed and truly sorry all at the same time that first time. The humility it instilled in me has made me a better person and wife. I no longer act that way and have closer friendships because I am a nicer person. If I slide, usually a quiet word or the look shocks me back to reality. He has only spanked me twice but the "talking to" is just as effective and humbling. Amazing submissive sex usually follows. I am glad he asserted himself and made our marriage stronger and more stable. Its not that I'm "less than" now its the clearly defined expectations. We share domestic responsibilities etc... but I realize we need a leader, every organization does and he is better at it than me. My opinion matters and is always considered and usually accepted but he has the final say. Sometimes during sexy time he teases me about needing a spanking and I immediately get crazy horny.
My wife loves being humiliated. It turns her more on than anything. It is a bedroom sex thing, I would never degrade her or humiliate her outside of the bedroom.