My girlfriend has suggested that she would like DP

Before I turned 40, one of my bucket list items was to experience a MMF three-way. My husband and I swing/swap and he told me he'd like to watch me having sex with another guy.
We invited a friend. It took us a few times because both had trouble, if you know what I mean, being naked in the same room.
My husband did some research online and for our vacation he paid an agency to hook us up with two male 'adult models'. I got tested and they had been too so condoms were not necessary.
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You should let her pick the man that she wants to be with that way she is more comfortable with the guy. My wife would go out and to clubs and find a guy that she likes and she will usually have sex with him two or three times before she actually begins him home with her for the threesom. That way she knows that he is not crazy and she is more comfortable with him in bed. If she's happy with both of you then it will be a great night of sex for all involved.

I had both a 3some and 4some with mine and it was totally hot!

I joined my friend and his wife for a 3-way. It was fun. She asked us to DP her. It was the first for us and a little awkward but we got it done.
While we were getting into position. her on top me on bottom in her pussy. It was the first time my dick touched another guys dick. My friend was trying to DP her pussy. She waved him out and we each took turns in her ass. Since then she's been clingy and we secretly side hookup. lol

Same for me. He was longer than me but thinner. We dpd my gf and his wife. Both holes filled multiple times. anthonytaormina1959@gmail.com

We had three somes years ago and believe me once you watch your wife being fucked by another man your sex life will go off the charts believe me.

You are so right about that I had a threesom with my wife and a guy she met in the club and I loved watching her getting fucked by him. It started a new lifestyle for us and she loved that I didn't get jealous when she was with other men.

Nothing in life is without risk, it's all about management. The advice I'm about to roll out is really common sense:

- Make a profile on a dating site. Okcupid is useful, also Fetlife. Talk about your experience, who you are, and what you're looking for. Remember to respect the other person and not treat it like you're ordering a hamburger.
- Go meet that other person. Whether you shared pics or didn't on your profile, you need to meet them for coffee. This helps filtering out the no-shows and the crazies. Your lady will also want someone who is attractive.
- Whether it's just your lady, or you, or both, meet. You can even schedule 5 guys in one night, with a 20 min chat each, if you're clever.
- Two important questions should be: a) have you done this before b) when did you last get tested (and let's see results). People with experience in anal will obviously be helpful. Likewise, people who have been with couples before.
- Whether they tested yesterday, or last month, use condoms. No excuses. Maybe later have unprotected if you're best besties months later. Have viagra for the night ready for both you and him.
- Your 'one nite' encounter is a typical wish but actually multi night encounters are better, when everyone is relaxed and knows each other. Reliable friends, in fact, make the best extra person.
- It can be easier for you (the guy) to be the only point of contact. More relaxing for you and other guys behave better, less dickpics and dumb shit.
- If you do take pictures, never faces or tattoos.
Have fun.

Excellent advice.
The only thing I would like to add is that DP positions are not as easy as it looks in porn.
My wife and I are swingers and 4 years ago she also wanted to experience DP. We did our research and on our vacation we attended a sex party. My wife picked the guy she wanted to join us. He was hung and told us he did amateur porn.
Because of his size, she wanted start out on top and he got her p**y and I was to f**k her a** while standing. I kept getting a leg cramp.
Thankfully, he knew a friend at the same party willing to help. He texted our room number to the guy.
I put my cloths on and sipped bourbon while the two of them gave my wife the amazing experience she wanted.
It was like watching a live performance.

I agree 100% with this reply.
It's all about everyone being comfortable with each other for it to truly work out.
My wife and I swing and finally decided to pursue our first MMF three way. We invited a good friend of ours that's had sex with my wife numerous times over the years.
I'll admit the pressure of another guy in the room gave me trouble if you know what I'm talking about. Especially since it was the first time I'd been in the room with another naked guy that was in better shape and much larger than me. I quickly found out why my wife picked him.
Thankfully he bailed me out by giving me a Viagra. They work!
We had fun and after visit number three, the three of us became very comfortable with each other and I didn't need the extra help from Pfizer.
Have fun, good luck and enjoy. It's all about everyone exploring their bodies and limits for pleasure.

I understand your concerns. We decided to use my friends so that my wife can be DP or even more than two. That way we were ok with no matter who or how many were having sex with her. My friends had always wanted to have sex with her so it was a great opportunity for them to do that. My wife loves it and always asks when she can do with with them, even when it was the previous day. What I am saying overall is that unless you know the person/people there would always be a risk.

Totally agree. A trusted friend is your best choice.