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How bad is it that I let another guy masturbate to me naked?
I (F19) have a boyfriend (M22) and I work a cute guy (M19) who always flirts with me. A couple of days ago some of us were out drinking. It was cute guys birthday a not long ago and he suggested as a present he should get to see me naked.
Maybe it was the drink or his sweet talking, but his request didn't sound like a huge deal. So I agreed under the strict condition that he can't touch me or take photos. At the end of the night we all said goodbye and I pretended to go home, we met a couple of blocks later and I went to his apartment.
I did a little sexy dance for him and stripped off my clothes and shook my boobs a little. I didn't expect him to take out his d*ck and start jerking, but I wasn't offended, it kinda excited me a little. After he came I got dressed and took a taxi home. Anyway, now I've had time to think, the experience might not have felt too sexual for me but it certainly was for the cute guy. We didn't touch, but my naked body enabled his orgasm. I feel like I've really betrayed my boyfriend. So, what do you think? How bad was what I did?
I would have hung a dick in your ass if you were naked with me
It wasn’t the drink dear, or the sweet talking, you like the guy. No crime. Take a break from BF and experience others. Then you’ll know.
Sorry. I’m not looking to get all diseased up.
That may have been something that you aspired to achieve but it’s not for me.
Hey don’t get all insulting. You wrote asking for opinions. You don’t have to agree but no need to attack my health status…which is excellent by the way.
If you really care about your boy friend - be honest with him and yourself.
Take a break from him - and keep your knees together with the other cute guy until you can make an adult decision.
Scratching that itch with 'cute guy' isn't going to do a world of good for your self esteem.
You were so young you need to experience other cock. Was the co-worker bigger than your boyfriend and the cock Department? If so you need to spread your legs for him and enjoy being stretched. No one has to know and he may agree never to tell anyone
You dirty whore. Can you show me next?
Just playing... Yeah that's kinda fucked up tbh and naughty as hell. Id be fucking furious if you was my girl. Im not the jealous type at all but just feels wrong to me. So do with that what you will
Good luck.. Wouldn't do it again if you're trying to stay loyal to someone.
I doubt that guy will keep his mouth shut it will probably get out or you just will get eaten by guilt.
He will find out eventually.
My humble opinion
OP here: Thanks I guess.... He hasn't told anyone else... I have a problem, since that night I've become very attracted to my coworker. I still care deeply about my boyfriend, but I keep thinking about him and what we could have done If I let him touch me. He lives alone, it would be so easy for me to visit his apartment again and sleep with him. I'm scared that I'll do it.
You should probably leave your current boyfriend while you're ahead if you have desire for another
You know that the next time you will let him fuck you
Don't say anything. You sound so fucking hot.
Tell your boyfriend as if it hasn't happened yet. Ask him what he thinks?
Tbh if you tell your boyfriend he will think you fucked so it might have been a little naughty. not too bad in my opinion but I wouldn’t believe you didn’t fuck if I was him either so keep this a secret but don’t beat yourself up about it.
OP here: I know, I will never tell him about this.
I'm not one to normally advocate withholding information from a partner, but in this case I think this is solid advice. Yes, you crossed a line, but everyone will be happier in the long run if it ends there and you don't trouble your boyfriend with it.
That's going to be a challenge though, because I guarantee that Cute Guy is going to want more, and he's gotten a clear signal that persistence will pay off, so it's going to be very hard to shut him down.
Also, having given in a little bit and gotten away with it, it's going to be harder for you to resist the temptation. I know from personal experience that that can be a slippery slope. In a somewhat similar kind of situation, I had an "absolutely no physical contact" rule for myself. That kept the horny devil on my shoulder somewhat in check... for a while. For several years, in fact. But holding myself back from contact while continuing to have non-contact fun made the urge stronger and stronger. Eventually I "accidentally" slipped just a little bit. It was a huge sexual rush, but I swore I was going to stop altogether. Instead, it was like the dam broke. It didn't take long to go from "no touching" to being almost completely out of control. At the end I was meeting men I met online at their homes, having sex with strangers, and a lot more that I won't mention. I made a complete whore of myself. It was like I was someone else. The only rule I NEVER broke was to always use condoms when fucking. Even being a horrible cheater, I wasn't going to bring anything "extra" home.
Amazingly, I never actually got caught. What brought my extramarital spiral to an end was COVID. My job shifted to working from home, so I no longer have any opportunities to sneak away. Thank god! I won't lie and say that I didn't enjoy it, but the lingering guilt from my massive infidelity spree is the price I pay, and after 2 years I finally feel more like "me" again.
Not saying this will happen to you, but beware.