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Caught Wife at Bachelorette Party
My lovely bride of 30 years (3 kids, 4 grandkids together) attended a bachelorette party for the daughter of a co-worker in New Orleans. Yes we had the "boundaries" discussion ahead of time etc. etc. This was to be one of the new "Drag Show/Trans Stripper" bachelorette parties at brunch so everything sounded like it would be "safer" than a Chippendales/Dancing Bears kind of night time club show so I wasn't worried.
One of the "adult" attendees was taking pictures (and video I'm sure) that were automatically posting to one of her social media accounts. Her boyfriend- a friend of mine- started forwarding them to me . . . you can probably guess the rest.
While most of the pics were of the younger ladies handling the male drag stars c*cks and general fondling and "dares" (chants of "suck that d*ck" over and over again) . . . in the background many of the pictures clearly showed a sequence of my wife taking facials from several of the drag performers and then pulling the train on three of them.
I forwarded the first pic to her in a text with a "please stop" message. Three additional texts to her phone . . .but obviously she was otherwise occupied.
She calls me the NEXT MORNING (very late) and I didn't answer. She then replied to the texts from the night before with all the standard lame-assed excuses and rationalizations.
I took the day off from work to separate all the joint assets, changed all the locks on the doors, and had my first appointment with the divorce attorney . . .
I have read stories like this before and honestly thought they were all made up. 3 marriages and 2 engagements ruined during that one midafternoon party. 9 children now have broken families; ours were older but the rest of the ruined marriages the children were all 6-16 years old. My wife got fired (during the divorce proceedings EVERYTHING came out publicly); several of the other participants lost families and ended careers.
The (now ex) caught 2 STDs by the way. About the only bright spot in all of this that I can see.
Piss off you prude, if she's a slut let her be a slut
So you end 30 years of marriage over 1 mistake?
Mistake? She didn't give a shit about a clearly defined limit. An attempt to stop her failed. She had zero respect for her husband or marriage or even her own reputation. The O.P. is not the cause.
One mistake? Wow you really don't get it...
You made the right move. Congratulations!