Account Login
On ThePornDude Hall-of-Fame
Do all men feel like me ?
I'm a 38 year old married man. I have a normal sex life that is twice a week with wife (normal 3 positions, pussy eating ...). I grew up in conservative, religious family/country where sex before marriage was frowned upon. I did not have any sex until I got married when I was 29 years old. I have always been a horny guy and have regularly watched porn and masturbated since I was 15 years old.
My confession is that I am always fantasizing about women. I always check out any woman nearby. I look at their ass, tits and try to guess in my mind what panties they must be wearing. I always imagine me having sex with most of the woman i find slightly attractive. It is hard for me to see a woman and not check her out and not fantasize about her. My wife has caught me staring at woman at times.
Just today only, took my son to swimming class and there was beautiful young lady in sexy swimming costume. I couldn't keep my eyes off of her.
Went to work and a female co-worker with nice body was wearing tight jeans and low cut top. Had hard time in a meeting with her in same room. All the time thinking about fucking with her in office sometime.
Took son to another class in evening and a hot mom was there to drop her kids. She was wearing short shorts and sheer top. Sure she was wearing a g-string or no panties and her nipples were staring back at me. Imagined having threesome with her and my wife.
Went to grocery store and women in tight slacks/yoga pants squatting and bending to revel their sexy asses.
Came home and a neighbor in the community pool was wearing sexy red bikini. Imagined her as a hotwife and swapping wives with neighbor.
So much build up through out the day.
Do all men go through this every day ?
How do you relieve yourself ? Masturbate ? Porn ?
Is it normal for me to watch and imagine about any woman I see ? Or am I sick perv?
Am I cheating my wife if I see other woman? I have never had sex or an affair with any other woman in my life. Only entered my wife.
Would love to know woman's perspective on this. DO woman feel good when other men check them out? Do you feel bad when your husband watches other woman ? Is it wrong ?
Would appreciate any response. Thanks !
My experiences are the same as yours. After seeing an attractive gal, I like to fantasize that I'm having sex with her while masturbating. I think most guys do the same.
- no, in general, most women DON'T like you fantasizing about them or checking them out. Yeah they want your approval and your attraction, but they hate knowing you're thinking graphic things usually. It's not flattering to be threatened basically.
- a lot of men are pussy driven, it's just testosterone. But you need to be a man and control yourself, you may not be able to crontol your feelings but you can control your actions. You're not a perv for checking out women or fantasizing about them, and it's not cheating to have fantasies (though some wives don't understand and hate it)
A lot of dudes are really obsessive about sex and make it worse for themselves by encouraging the obsession. (like with porn) Train your brain to be obsessed with your wife and with other shit. Try to tie in your values with it. It's not easy for everyone sure, but don't let yourself be insecure just because something is a little difficult sometimes.
Masturbate! Focus on your wife....Tell her you need her help with your male needs!
get her to talk sexy with you in bed, dress sexy for you, etc. - so that she becomes the woman you fantasize about.
Most men 8/10 feels same way
Yes.
I personally see a different escort once a month.