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Big turn Off : Cumming in own hand
My wife does not like birth control pills. Both of us don't like condom either. She doesn't want any more kids. She finds cum disgusting and hence won't swallow or let me cum on her face or breasts or ass. So the only option I am left with is pull out when about I'm to cum and cum in my own hand. I shoot big loads. There is always a fear or cumming inside her and impregnating her . That is how our first kid was conceived accidentally without planning. And now even option of abortion is difficult . This fear makes sex with her less enjoyable. I do not want to cheat her .
Given all these constraints :
Any suggestions on how to deal with this ?
How can I convince her to let me cum on her breasts ?
How can I convince her to swallow once in a while ?
Any suggestions from Other men who were in same boat ?
Would like to know other women's perspective as well.
IUD? Tube tying? Vasectomy? Hormonal implant, patch, or shot? Vaginal ring? Plan B pills? Sponge & spermicide? Or switch it up. Try something new every 6 mos or so. Switch between hormonal alternatives so you won't have a waiting period. Then between the non-hormonal options. Get her accustom to cum in her. There is a theory that semen contains hormones and/or chemicals to which women become addicted with frequent exposure. You need to get her addicted.
Use her panties
I wife was same couple of years ago. I watched some p0rno videos with her where women seem to be loving getting sprayed over on their face or tits ?
After the videos she agreed to try it and liked it the first time I came on her beautiful breasts. Now she regularly allows me to cum on her ass or tits if she can shower after the sex.
Maybe educate her that cum is nothing nasty and not bad to swallow ? Watch videos with her. Heck, my wife now watches bukkake videos and gets really horny watching it.
I got a vasectomy so we have unprotected sex all the time. That was back in 2008 and the sex is great now that we don't worry about pregnancy. In Missouri, she had to sign off at the doctor's office that we were done having kids, so if she wouldn't like that, you may have issues.
Get a sissy boy to suck your cock instead, they always swallow.
Maybe discuss it with her ? She might accept at least one option if she wants to continue marriage. If not , you should explore other options
No way bro put her on some kind of birth control or get a vasectomy. My wife will take a load up in her or in the mouth . Actually loves sucking my precum if I drop a small load in her she question it so it's always got to be big loads. If you got to go somewhere else by al.means handle