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Can I trust her
I have met a lovely woman who was previously married.
She is 57 and I am 60. I have been seeing her for about two months, she has her own house.
A couple of times when I was there, a couple of guys called round at different times. she went outside and was talking to them.
When she came in after the last one called round, I asked her who they were.
She told me that they were guys that she was having regular sex with, but had told them it was over because she had met me.
I then as the question about how many lovers she had been with.
She then told me her total was 61 including me.
39 had been in the last three years, including a threesome with two 18 year olds.
She said that she didn’t stray when she was married and wouldn’t while we are together.
I think her total is a lot, but I don’t want to leave her??
We fucked on the first night.
What should I do!
Too be honest she only told you the truth, she settled with you and been up front with you .
She could have fobbed you off, about the men turning up & how many men she slept with & left the young mens threesome out of the equation. But she been upfront with her sexual past .
So if you can a future looking forward together, then looking at her past .
Sounds like you've got a wonderful sexy women .
I was about the same age when I met my girlfriend. She had been divorced for about a year, and left a previous long term relationship.
On our first date we had dinner and walked around the city. As we got to her car, she asked if I wanted to follow her to her house. I agreed. When we got to her house, I had just closed the front door when she told me she's been wanting to suck my cock all night. She quickly got on her knees and gave me an incredible blowjob. I watched as she passionately enjoyed sucking cock. She said a couple of times, she couldn't wait to taste my cum. When I finally did cum in her mouth she seemed to want every drop. I thought why would a girl who sucks this good be single?
After about a week we went on our second date and we ended up going back to her apartment and fucking most of the night. I fucked her in all different positions, but she loved it doggy style the most.
I noticed over the next couple of weeks she got a few phone calls that she quickly silenced. I asked her who they were and she told me that it was just her daughter.
I have this feeling that she is probably fucking her ex boyfriend as well as me.
She is such a great fuck that I hate to break up with her.
Sorry a slapper
She was upfront with you when you asked her about them, so yes I think you can trust her. It's perfectly normal for an attractive woman to want to have multiple partners for pleasure. Now if this continues or you spot something on her phone then you should reconsider but for now I don't see anything wrong with it
On the surface I think she is genuine and will be loyal as long as you treat her well "means give her as much sex and keep things a bit different" My cousins wife was the town bike before they married but never cheated afterwards so they can change if they really love you, I say trust her but be aware.
You can but you have to just keep pounding that pussy. If not she going to get one those young bucks to do it.
Does she suck cock? Swallow? Fuck in more than two positions? Ride her until your done! Old women out number old men... They're easy to find.
Ware condoms. Enjoy.
You have to make a decision about if you can handle knowing that she will fuck other men. It was hard for me at first when my wife started sleeping around with different guys. But I noticed that she was the same woman that I married nothing had changed between us as far as being a couple. Once a woman gets used to enjoying having sex with other men you can't just make her stop. It has nothing to do with you it's about her sexual needs and if you try to change her you will get hurt in the long run. When my wife started fucking other guys in the first year she was with 20 different men. She was going wild but she was enjoying herself and she was happier than I ever seen her. And everything was still great between us. I was secure in my manhood and I had a wife that had no sexual hang ups. Jealousy it a terrible thing that breaks up a marriage.
Sounds like she has high sex drive and for her act of sex is un related to relationship. If you are okay with her having sex with others while you are in relationship , then it is okay. Other wise you should leave her because you will be hurt later on. She will not stop having sex with other men.
Just keep fucking her of course as much as possible but monitor the situation it sounds to me like she is quite honest and genuine however best if you don't divulge your financial position to her or lend her any money for a while.