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Surprising my husband
I need some help ladies. My husband who is 28 has told me for awhile that his fantasy is to have a 3some with me and another girl but I’ve always shut him down fast. He’s mine and I don’t want to share lol but he hasn’t said anything in the past year or 2. Well I think I want to surprise him and bring a friend in. I’ve thought about it a few times but I think I’m finally ok with trying it lol. My question is how should I ask one of my friends this? I don’t want it to be a random girl and would rather it be one of my friends that I’m a little closer with. Another problem is most of my close friends are married also or have a bf. I feel like it’s going to be awkward no matter who or how I ask this bc we don’t really talk as much as we used to either. I know most of our slutty days are past us but I’m kinda wanting this to happen as well. His birthday is next month and I want to surprise him on his birthday. I’ve already thought kinda how I want it to happen. I want to tell him I’ve got a present but he has to be blind folded, and then I’ll strip him down and he will think it’s just me until I’m kissing him and he feels one of my friends sucking his dick. Another plus that might help one of my friends agree is he’s 8in and thick. I’m 25 and most of my friends are around my age and a little older. Any kind of help will be nice lol. Thanks!
Do you have any friends who are bi? I'm sure your hubby would love watching her eating you.
Ok it happened! Lol. It was actually pretty good and went quite smooth. Long story short on how we ended up doing it. One of my friends that I had already thought about asking actually just broke up with her bf because he cheated on her. She was saying how she had been loyal and only was fucking him but yet he had sex with 2 other girls while they was together. She said she had multiple opportunities to fuck another guy but wanted to be loyal bc she thought he was. Then she proceeds to tell me she is about to just go fuck another guy since she’s had the same dick for awhile and wants it bigger than his. So I asked how big is he and she said around 6. I then said damn yea get a bigger dick in you, you will forget about him. Then she asks me if I know anyone. I was hesitant but decided to go for it and said, well are you down for whatever as long as you get fucked and she said yea. I told her my husband has had a fantasy that we haven’t fulfilled yet and she kinda just looked at me and smiled and said go on. I told her he wants a 3some but I want it to be someone I know and not just a random girl. Long story short she agreed and 2 days ago she came over without my husband knowing and I blindfolded him and as he was licking my pussy she grabbed his dick and started sucking. He froze for a sec and took blindfold off and I said surprise. He was stunned for a sec but I said it ok just keep going. He fucked me and her and we all really enjoyed it.
And I’m sorry my reply is broken into several bc it was too long. Start at the bottom one I think, lol. That way it will make more sense, for sure.
But if you can’t shake the urge, go unicorn hunting and get it girl. Update us when you do. :)
If you pursue the threesome now before you’re fully comfortable with seeing your guy with his hands all over someone else while looking into her eyes—maybe with his dick inside of her instead of you, you’re going down the slipperiest slope imaginable but it’s possible that it could be worth it. And if you go forth with a threesome with someone you consider a friend or colleague or whatnot, this is true tenfold, it seems in these situations at least one person ends up with the short end of the stick and unhappy somehow, if not immediately then eventually. That said, you’re not extremely communicative and understanding as well as very self-confident and very attracted to females, you are likely paving the road to hell for yourself or him, perhaps for all involved.
3. No matter what happens, always remember, you cannot go backwards and undo it, unsee it or go back to how it all was before. Questions will arise about yourself, him, the girl and the relationship. Insecurities may arise during the scrogging times or afterwards and sometimes before, if one of you seems a bit to anxious to bust out of the stable, etc. This is important. You cannot go backwards.
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2. I would recommend meeting a new person, as in actively looking for one solely for the purposes of the threesome. There are numerous hookup apps for this. Or consider it part of your date nights to be on the prowl, for lack of a better expression. Whether or not it ever comes to fruition, who knows…but it seems like it could be fun to pick someone out together and find out things about each other and what you’re attracted to, and then the fantasy element will be a little more prominent in comparison to coaxing someone you already know into it—in which case you’d both be settling somewhat for something that’s just there already, as well as setting all three of you up for times that are awkward at best and at worst, heart wrenching my deceitful (whether those feelings are justified by reality or paranoia they’ll still suck ass).
I don’t recommend the friend route for several reasons, most are obvious but the most obvious is that your dynamic will never be the same. It likely won’t change as much between you and your husband but there’s also always that chance. When you said, “he’s mine!”, that indicated to me that you are not completely comfortable with the idea anyway, and that’s completely understandable. If you’re going to do it, and I’m not saying you should, a few things that you must consider beforehand:
1. Only do it if the idea turns YOU on. This is tricky, bc sometimes it turns us on just that our man is turned on but if not for that then the actions themselves aren’t something we’d pursue otherwise. If you are attracted and/or curious about women, a good way to start is to fool around with one and let him just watch and not participate for the first time, and go from there. You might find that it’s not even something you like. Or you might find that you can’t live without it.
Heck, you both may find that it’s something neither of you find worth the hype.
2. I would recommend But if you can’t shake the urge, go unicorn hunting and go for it. Update us when you do!
Tell your husband that the extra girl comes with the stipulation that you have to re-pay the other husband with your own visit with them. Tit for Tat so to speak. Might make it easier to get a trusted woman for your man.
Tell him you would love to do a threesome but with another guy that’s what my wife gets me every year for my birthday I love to see her fuck a big dick guy
To approach the subject with friends, tell the 1 friend that you think will most likely go for it, that you want to ask her a private question that she needs to promise not to share. Then tell her what your husband's fantasy is, including that he has a big cock, and ask her if she knows of anyone who would possibly be interested. If she is interested at all, she might volunteer, tho it may take some time for her to think about it. She also may have an idea of someone else who might be interested. Win/win. If she doesn't suggest anyone and doesn't volunteer herself after 3 weeks, go have the same conversation with the friend who you think it next most likely. You will probably be surprised in that the least likely person you think would be interested is the biggest freak. I have a friend that is not that sexy (not that great a body) but I found out accidentally has had several affairs
Thank you. That does sound like a good idea, just don’t want it to backfire and she says no and ends up telling someone and then the word spread around. This is something I def don’t want to be known by anyone but the person involved lol. But that is a great idea on how to word it.