Showering with my son
My husband and I both showered with our kids until they got to the age when we realized it became different.
I saw both of my parents naked as a child. That ended with my dad way earlier than my mom, dad being somewhere before high school, and mom later. My dad was a truckdriver who came home late at night, and would wake me up to spend time with me since he had usually been gone for several days. I would sit on the side of the bathtub while he bathed the petroleum smell off his body. So what? If anything, seeing my dad in normal self-care situations, nude, made the male body less of a mystery to me.
The thing is there is going to be a day when that does become different too. A normal parent will pick up on the change, and act accordingly. With my son, now 16, I don’t remember a moment when I decided to stop letting him shower with me. It was natural. Nobody felt funny, or rejected, or ashamed. I just now asked him about it, and he agrees. It wasn’t weird because we were respectful of the evolution of our relationship. I never had to tell him not to come in when I was nude. He never had to tell me that I should not bust in on him in the shower. It just happened.
I would imagine, for me personally, that never having seen the opposite sex nude in an ordinary circumstance, with no sexual energy, would be even more out of the ordinary. I mean, if my son never saw a normal woman he loved nude, without the cultural and developmental complications of puberty to deal with or the sexual pressures of adolescents, then he will never know of the female body.
Some people can say nudity in front of kids is always wrong. They’re full of shit. Concealment breeds curiosity and makes the imagination fill in the blanks. That can be bad.
I don’t think it’s healthy to make a standard for whether nudity in the home is right or wrong. It’s a sensitive area that requires the parent to feel when it becomes different.
Now if my son, or I are nude and the other is about to intrude on the bathroom or bedroom, we have a funny shout-out to let the other know we are not presentable. But that’s just our funny way of dealing with the situation of being walked in on when we are in an undressed state.
Nudity is normal. The idea that we shouldn’t see the opposite sex, until… well, until when? Are we supposed to never see an opposite sex body until we are expected to engage in sex with them.
It was normal to us to as we are a nudist family,that was until we noticed our son getting erections whilst close to his mother! We sat him down and explained what was happening with his dick then said what shoots out of the end of it! Totally confused by this his mother told him to stand up and played with his balls,his cock rose to attention and his mother stroked him back and forth until he came all over her and the floor,it only made him hungrier for more and kept asking his mother to play with his cock,I found this extremely horny and suggested to my wife to fuck him! Amazingly for me and our son she agreed to it,I remember the first time it happened and seeing the look on his face as his mother sucked his teenage cock! He's 21 now and me and him still fuck her! both together is my wifes favourite,her pussy and asshole filled at once
O) am female 16 years of age and last month I walked in on my farther raking a bath and all I could do was stare at him for he was very hard sticking up pointing at the ceiling, he was slowly stroking his cock and asked me if I wanted something I remained kinda silent till he asked me if I wanted to stroke him. I reached out and took hold of him couldn't believe how great he felt and when he came god he squirted all over my face. He told me to get undressed and get in the tub with him and I did, ended up giving him a BJ and him putting his cock in my pussy, didn't cum in me tho.
I think it's true. My own Dad left us when I was very young, my Mother bathed me almost daily, there came a point where I began to get erections when she washed my groin with a washcloth, and one day I had my first ejaculation. Early on she let me nurse on her, she still had milk for a year or two, then it was just pretend stuff. She didn't say anything other than it was OK and it felt nice to her, she just cleaned me, that became a regular thing until she was just helping me, with no pretense. Sometimes I would stay hard and she would do it the 2nd time. When I was about 18 she showed me her body and where to touch with girlfriends, climbing right into the tub with me. It was just normal. But we never did have real sex, my first time was on my wedding night at age 20. She died last year at age 68, she was a wonderful Mother.
Love it a lot