Vegas cheat

Don't ever confess but don't be surprised if she suspects or knows and is more than fine with your occasional cheating. Few ever want to feel humiliated but many like to get vicarious thrills. Knowing others, that they relate to or know, doing what they dare not do, can be an aphrodisiac.

When word at work got around that I had cheated on my girlfriend with a married woman, soon I was getting hit on by married women I worked with. This started a time in my life when I dated girls my age but mostly slept with married women I worked with or were wives that knew the married women I worked with. They made it clear I needed to always have a girlfriend as cover so dalliances with me were less suspected.

One of the girls I dated for cover figured out I was seeing other women. Instead of getting upset she was fascinated and wanted to know more. Not naming names, I told the truth. She got hot with arousal and declared me a perfect stud. She begged me to never stop being a real man. The world was short of brave real men. We had sex. Not long after that she proposed. We've been married just over 30 years.

None of our friends know I cheat on her. Even now, in the privacy of our bedroom, nothing get my wife aroused faster then announcing I was unfaithful earlier today and tease details as we begin our own fun together.

Over time I've come to know that there are a LOT of couples where one turns a 'blind-eye' to the cheating ways of their significant other as it arouses them to suspect or know immensely.

One year later you do it again and then regret it? I see more of you doing this in your future.