Normal to want wife to see other men?

I've seen a few people post this subject so I know I'm not alone wanting my wife the f*@k other guys. But is this normal?
I've read articles covering this topic where experts claim a man wants his wife to sleep with others to cover the fact he has done the same himself, this is usually advice to the woman.
Problem is that's not the case with me. I've never cheated on my wife. The same can't be said for her as during our married life I have caught her up to no good numerous times. I used to get mad and we would have big arguments. I would always come round for the sake of our children and give her chance after chance until I gave up hope of changing her.
She is a very beautiful woman with a great figure who is naturally desired by men. One day it just clicked, I knew she didn't love any of these guys it was just two people having sex and it began to turn me on. I have since had a number of conversations with her giving her permission but she won't take the offer. I think she prefers me not knowing. I don't want to watch I just want her to be happy and realise I can't change what she is.
Normal or not??

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  • Some women are just not one man woman if you know what I mean. Ive been married for 40years now and my wife has always needed more than what I could give her. I knew how she was before I married her. Maybe im strange but it never bothered me and I was never jealous about her being with other men. We have a very good relationship we never fight about anything. She told me that when we are together that we make love. And when she's with other men it's just for the sex. I really don't know how many guys she's fucked over the years. I know it's a lot. She's just a free spirited woman and very sexual. She's never tried to make me feel less than a man or humiliated me. Sometimes she stays out all night sometimes she will bring a guy home with her. She will always ask me if I'm ok with her going out or if I need anything. For me it's a normal thing for her to be with other men. She cooks and cleans and makes sure that my needs are taken care of. We still have great sex together. Some people think i married a slut. I married a caring woman who i love and respect. I didn't marry her to own her or to keep her pinned down. I understand it's a sexual thing. So why not let her have her fun she always comes home to me. And in a way im proud that other men want her. All i know is that when you don't have any jealousy involved in your marriage the love is stronger and life is good. So love your wife for who she is and never judge what she wants and needs.

  • In October 2019 my graduate level best friend alongwith his wife came to our town on business trip and stayed at our house. Once we too have discussed off swapping wife and sex together and had laughed over phone. On that day at my home, while we went out to have a walk in park, the swap sex popped up. I told my wife would not agree. He told his wife was ready for group sex and she may help my wife to agree for the act tonight. Thinking of fucking my buddy's big gorgeous wife, I told him our bedroom door shall not be locked from inside and while we will be in the act of sex you both may storm in nude and see how things work out. In bedroom getting my wife full naked telling her my friend who has a big cock may be fucking his wife now and started nibbling her ears which gives her the arousal. Her legs wide open were locked on my back and hands wrapped around my shoulder. Just then they barged in. Startled my wife struggled to hide her pussy with her palm and boobs with other hand. She said Hey what you people are up to while she was googling his massive erection and big cock. I said don't worry just they will give us a company only. My friend's wife got to the bed and took my wife;s head as if consoling,. My friend sat on the side my wife and lay beside her. I signaled my friend to start and he slowly put his fingers down her pussy and started stimulating her clitoris and I too followed suit with his wife. I knew my wife too submissive and some assurance from my side we enjoyed the full night. In the morning while they were leaving she gave my friend full liplock kiss while he just fondled her boobs and other hand cupping her pussy. After they left we went to the bedroom and had another sex and I felt a different wife too horny and sexy. She thanked me for such a wonderful experience. Once in a while such change is good.

  • Yes, I think it's pretty normal nowadays. The smart thing is to come up with an arrangement that is beneficial to everyone for example, wife has my blessings as long as I get to meet the stud first, they use protection and he does not get to go in her ass

  • No one really knows what normal is

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