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Ive been a bad husband
I'm married to a wonderful woman. But I've always been bi sexual. She has no idea of this. To get a man taking something up his ass is gross. Anyway I was on Craigslist looking at men for men and thought I would post an add myself. I've always had a few Fantasy's so thought what the hell , go for it. I asked for a group of me saying I was a bottom only. The next day I looked at email and had a response to it. Seems there was someone interested. I meet with three guys and we became very good friends. The problem now is that I've moved and miss them. Where I'm at now it's hard to find good friends like them. Missouri is not a good place. Especially here by Cape Girardeau. If your interested in this let me knew
Incidentally, you have not been a bad husband, you have just held back a very big part of you from the woman that you love.
Given the comments made by your elected representatives, it is no big stretch to say that intolerance is rampant in Missouri. That being said, you cant be someone you are not. It isnt about labels and anal sex is far more common among heterosexual couples than it is among homosexual couples. Pegging is the second most common fetish in heterosexual relationships (anal sex is the first) so men DO take things "up the ass" and enjoy it --there are gobs and gobs of nerve endings in the area to say nothing of the mental stimulation. Don't hang on to the labels, I live in a similar situation (though nowhere near that oven you call home lol!) and I can tell you that repressed is very, very, common and when combined with closeted, bearded (the woman likes girls but they are married because of the intolerance that surrounds them and the guilt and shame from growing up with that same intolerance and repression), and just plain frustrated and horny, there are guys that want desperately to play with you. Just play it safe, meet in a very public place and spend the money on a nice hotel (the security of the building plus the lack of foreknowledge of the location of the room can make things a lot safer) and let the concierge keep your valuables in the hotel safe and just run a tab; peace of mind is worth a lot.
You might also consider that the LGBT support group at the local community college or at the university might well have older than college kid adults in it and they are all too familiar with the obstacles you face. Besides being safer than random meetings, you might find that who you are is more ok than you give yourself credit and if she is as wonderful as you say, she will understand or you will find someone who does --as I have-- and will love you for who you really are. Incidentally, help the intolerant and moronic leave office by voting for someone else so that, someday, everyone that wants to play with someone wearing the same underwear will be as safe.