I just got punched in the stomach

I came home after a long day at the office. I was looking forward to a relaxing evening and just watching some television all snuggled up with my wonderful lovely sexy wife. I picked up some Chinese food so she wouldn't have to cook. After dinner I walked the dog and then as I prepared to settle down the wife said she needed to talk with me. I said sure honey lets chat. I could tell that she was nervous. I held her hand and told her it was ok she could tell me what was on her mind. Then she withdrew her hand from mine. I didn't like that. She was pulling away from me. This wasn't good. My stomach was in knots. Then she said that she was having an affair with someone else. I couldn't believe it. I asked who are you sleeping with. She said it didn't matter. I pressed her saying that I had the right to know who it was. So after a bit of me pressing her she told me it was a guy she went to high school with and they were just friends. That's until she ran into him and they started chatting on Facebook and he confessed his love for her. I hate the internet and Facebook for destroying my family. It really fucking totally sucks. Now my wife wants to be with her new love and tear apart all we have built. We have two daughters that are going to be subjected to this whole affair. I see this all time in my work. I'm a lawyer. I don't specialize in divorce but have colleagues that do. I will try and post more as this unfolds. She has told me that she wants to be with him and not me. She feels closer to him and like she has little in common with me anymore. I just have to shake my head. This has blind sided me and shocked me beyond belief. I'm totally numb right now. I thought all was well. She has totally deceived me and in the process ripped my guts out. I will get through this. As tough as it may be. I will no longer be the same person as I wonder about how fragile life can be. She says there is nothing to work out she loves him and wants to make a life with him. I'm not one of those men who would just say that I love her no matter what and want to work it out or even fight to keep her. She has betrayed my trust and for that alone I can not forgive her. That's how I feel and the way I roll. I'm really angry and mad. I will get on with my life and not let them ruin what's left of it. To hell with her and him.

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