Wife sharing is it normal ?

I have been married for 15 years and lately for some reason I sometimes look at my wife and wonder what it would be like to watch her have sex with another man.
Lea is still a very attractive woman that teaches physical Therapy to older men and women and to tell the truth we still are not what you would call sexually active but we have sex maybe once or twice a month and Lea enjoys it but the excitement is gone now and I remember how excited she used to get and how once she really got into it she could have several orgasms when we had long sessions.
I looked into wife sharing and found many different reasons that men have this perversion and there are many reasons for it but it is common mostly with older couples.
Several times I have brought this up to my wife but she just laughs and calls me a pervert but she dose it in a kidding way.
I think I could handle watching another man do her but I am not positive but if she ever agrees I would like to see her do it even if she only dose it once.

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  • Two months back my graduate level best friend alongwith his wife came to
    our town on business trip and stayed at our house. We used to talk over
    phone all things under the world and also our personal sex issues. Once
    we too have discussed off swapping our wife and sex together and had
    laughed over phone. On that day while we went out to have a walk in park, the swap sex popped up. I told my wife would not agree. He told his wife was ready for group sex. Thinking of fucking my buddy' big gorgeous wife I told our bedroom door will not be locked from inside and while we will be in the act of sex you both may storm in nude and see how things work out. Accordingly while we were having sex they barged in. Startled she turned to other side hiding her pussy with her palm and breasts with other hand. I sat on my bed as friend's wife came closer to me and my friend to the side of my wife. She said hey what you people are up to. I said don't worry just they will give us a company only. As I got up friend's wife got to the bed and took my wife head as if consoling, who just turned and buried her head under her chin for comfort. My friend sat on the side my wife and I too got to bed and lay beside his wife. My wife sensing some wrong just pulled up her knees and my friend with that 8 inch cock slowing sliding by the butt crack touching her backside of the pussy lying beside cuddled her from behind. Slightly stiffing up my wife straightened her legs and his cock simply slide in between her thighs and the head come the other way down her pussy. Meantime I two pushed his wife and my wife was wedged in that position. I signaled my friend to start and he slowly put his fingers down her pussy and started stimulating and too followed suit with his wife. I knew my wife to submissive and some assurance from my side we enjoyed to full night.

  • It is quite normal nowadays and all kinds of people do it for different reasons. I always knew I was gay but got married and lived a straight life till I came out to my wife a couple years ago. We now have an incredible arrangement. Aside from an open marriage we meet up on occasion with a bi sexual male lover of ours and have an amazing threesome together.

  • Its not the sharing that is normal but the cheating is. They say that 80% of married people cheat. Women have out striped the men when it comes to cheating these days. It is so easy to cheat I wonder why people bother to get married at all.
    Any woman who wants to cheat can do so at the drop of a hat. Men are like animals in heat and can easily be lured into any woman's bedroom.
    Its the ladies who control the cheating game, the men are just play things.

  • I'm mostly not into sharing but my good buddy ghosted me. he would come by every Sunday to watch football or just have beers and burgers in the back yard. Wife issues with him, and he never had a blowjob -- ever. Wife is grossed out at the thought. It's my wife's favorite thing, she loves giving them, in the past a little too much (for an old boss before we met). Wife knows he never had one. Pillow talk: Maybe Bob would come back if you gave him a blowjob. "if you're good with that -- I'd love to. to have a pass on giving a good looking 45 yr old guy his first would be my pleasure....you can't watch thought,, that would be too weird,, just make believe you don't know.. go to the store or something,,, i'll take it from there. Hope he doesn't blow my head off."

    I'm still not sold on the idea.

  • That sounds really fun.

  • Not sure what "is" normal when it comes to sex, but if you have a strong relationship and can both make the distinction between who you love (spouse) and with whom it might be fun to have casual, no-strings recreational sex (others), then you might give it a try. My 1st wife would never do it, but I remarried to a lady who is a free spirit and comfortable enough in her early 40s to enjoy. In fact, we play with a couple who have been friends with her for years, long before I met her. My wife is the one who got me into it.

  • It is normal but preferably for a strong marriage.

  • I let my wife fuck her coworker. Her idea to fuck him after I suggested it. Little did I know that he had already flashed his dick at her while at work. She knew he was big and that's why she chose him after I recommended it. He came over and fucked her in our bed, but she wouldn't let me watch because she was too uncomfortable with it. I sat in the other room and listened to her moan and scream like I have never heard her before. I could clearly her the slapping sounds from him fucking her. They fucked for a good hour before going quiet. I figured they would come out, but they didn't. About a half hour later I could hear them fucking again. She kept telling him how big he was and that he was going too deep. They finally came out after being in the bedroom for 3 hours. She looked exhausted and her hair was a mess. Now she keeps asking me when they can do it again. I keep telling her no unless I get to be involved, but she keeps saying she would be too imbaresed. I pretty sure she's probably just going to fuck him anyway when I'm not around. Or she already has.

  • Don't you see, when she is with lover boy you don't exist. She knew you were in the house and could hear then fucking, she didn't care what you could hear as long as she got what she wanted. She told you she wants to do it again , and make no mistake , she will do it with your knowledge or not.
    She now knows you are ok with her having sex with her lover boy.
    I think you stuck your head in a noose.

  • Hot. Did you let them do it bareback no condom and no pull out?

  • Yup, thats the problem with sex with coworker. You lose control of when they fuck. Did the coworker know that you are aware they are fucking?

    We are already swinging and my wife asked for a pass to fuck her coworker. He knows she is married but he keeps on fucking her after work in his apartment before she comes home. She always come home exhausted. She said she enjoys it too but wouldnt know how to let him stop with the whole affair. I have no way of knowing if it is the guy who really wanted it. I can't confront the guy due to the drama that may spill over into her work that might risk her job. She ended up quitting eventually.

  • (Part 1) Having been into swinging for quite a while, my advise to you is to make sure your wife wants it too. Dont force her into anything she doesnt like.

    It is not a perversion I tell you as long as you dont hurt anyone or 'disturb society' while doing it. It is a style of your sexual life which is your private personal affair as long as you both want it.

    To test your wife, let her watch quality porn that involves a 3some, 2 males and female with a story. Not the sleezy ones you see free on the net. Or movies with those themes, like "Palm Swings", "Escapades with Friends", "Four Lovers", etc. Observe her reactions while watching. Heavy breathing? Excitement? Wet? Then make love and see it your sex is hotter. If yes, then it excites her. Talk about it before going to sleep. Or talk about actors or even real guys she knows that are hot or that you know she likes or admires. Talk about what ifs scenario. If it excites her, good. Allow her to talk without judgment on your part. She will not open up when there is no high level of trust.

    Or if she loves to read, google relationship psychology articles online that talks about wife sharing or swinging or open relationships and let her read them. Especially those that says it is perfectly normal among couples and not a perversion. (See part 2)

  • (Part 2)
    If she shows signs of interest (women with conservative upbringing wont tell you a direct yes if they are up to it. Play it by the ear), then go to the next step. Find a candidate for your first experiment. Somebody with a clean lifestyle, not a kiss and tell, and who will respect your wife. Of course, somebody he is attracted to. Never a work colleague! If you cant find anyone you know, let her create a profile on a dating site. But you have both to devote some time to screen the candidate of your choice for his character before meeting up. Make sure he is not a psycho, etc. Chat and video chat often. Dont give your actual personal details right away unless you are sure of him. Meet on a coffee shop, restaurant, or hotel if need be.

    I hope this helps. Good luck on your journey. Harm none! - Poe

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