Ex reconnected and confessed
So an ex live in girlfriend just contacted me after both of us having moved on for 12 years. We've both remarried. So the first two calls were typical small talk. The third call she dropped the bomb that during our ten year she had an affair with one of my friends that lasted 4 years. She proceeds to tell me intimate details of how it started and how they would meet up for sex. She said the affair ended the same time we separated. Not really sure why she is confessing? I'm still friends with the guy and now wonder if he has bedded my current wife?
A similar thing happened to me with an ex gf a few years ago. Everything was great in our relationship and then one day she announced she was moving and it was best if we just broke up. I really was devastated. I wasn’t thinking about marrying her at the time but she was great. She literally cut off all ties with me. No social media, nothing. Last year I ran into her at the store. She was home visiting her parents. I now know why she dumped me and left town. With her she had an almost 2 year old child. I asked her about the kid and she confessed that she was having an affair while we were together and ended up getting pregnant. She wanted to keep it and the guy got a job in another town so she left.