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Give her a second chance?
I recently learned my wife cheated on me. It's odd, because I thought our relationship was great. It was with a friend from her high school who was in town and hit her up for a lunch date. I've never met the guy, but she said he's gay and his male partner was also going to the lunch too. I do know that this friend dated my wife for a bit when they were young, but this was before he came out of the closet as gay. I didn't worry much about the meetup due to the gay thing. They had lunch at the hotel her friend and his husband were staying.
My wife got home a few hours later and things seemed fine. She said she had a good time at lunch. She went to go change into some leggings as they were more comfortable and while she was gone I realized I was out of cigarettes. I checked my wife's purse to see if she had any extras, but fuck, I found condoms in her purse and a couple of empty condom wrappers. My wife and I don't use condoms as she's on the pill.
I confronted my wife about this and she kinda broke down and apologized. After lunch she went to her friend's room and they had a bi MMF threesome. She said she bought the condoms just in case and to be extra safe. I asked if she fucked both her male friend and his husband and she said yes. I left to go buy some cigs and came back and made a stiff drink. I told my wife that I didn't want to talk to her at that time.
I know my wife is a horny type. She's 27 and loves to screw. But this is the first time she's cheated and I don't know how to process her lapse in judgment. I don't want to leave her, but I don't want to give her a pass either. I almost think I should remain married but find a way to even the score.
Either ask for a redo and join in, or take off. Up to you, I'd want a fucking nothing off limits orgy!
Their all whores.
You think it’s the first time 😂
I dont care if the guy says he was gay or not, women and men cant be friends without the tension of seeing how genitals fit together. Im not saying leave her, but chances are that she walked out the door that day knowing that she was going to do some fucking.
Ditch her. I was dating a gorgeous woman..Probably the most beautiful woman I've ever known or been with, who was also a lifetime local. Most of her friends were guys from her old high school days, and I knew about half either had her back then or wanted her now. I knew one guy from the sports bar I go to, didn't like him even before finding out about his association with her from high school, and kept tabs on he and other guys.
One night, on her FB page, she mentioned going on a "dinner date", which I knew wasn't with me, since I was home. A comment said "Finally say yes to___", no name listed. It wasn't the guy I hated, since he had a new gf and was all gushing about her, but..I was curious as to who it was, and if she'd tell me anything. I called her out on it, she knew she was caught cheating, and tried to pass it off as "It was ONE dinner date! At his house". That's what got me. At his house. I knew the dinner was her, and I was angry as hell about the lying.
We ended it, had no contact for 2 years, then reconnected. She asked me for that second chance, flat-out. "Do you think we can try again? Give me a second chance?". I did, things were great for awhile, then I found out she wasn't cheating on me or fucking other guys, but, was using me and at least 2 other guys for money to pay her bills. She was on disability and didn't work, and I did pay her phone and other bills every month. I then got a text from one, then, another guy, about doing the same thing for her. I'm done with all of it ,and her now. Second chances aren't worth it.