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My Husband Seems “Jealous” About My Annual Pelvic Exam
Girls – Are any of your husbands or boyfriends “jealous” about your annual pelvic exam?
For years, my husband has acted “weird” about my annual visit to the gynecologist. I have seen 3 different gynecologists during the time we’ve been married, 2 of which were female and the third (my current doctor) is male. Early in our marriage my husband asked questions about what goes on during my annual exam. Assuming he was just curious, I explained to him about breast exams, pelvic exams, pap smears, and rectal exams. My explanation seemed to satisfy his curiosity. One time, a few years ago, he was off work the day of my exam and decided to come with me and we’d have lunch afterwards. He and I were surprised when my doctor (who was female) invited him into the exam room along with me. It felt kind of “weird” to me. But he’s my husband and it wasn’t any big deal to me. He sat in a chair off to the side while the doctor and her nurse completed the exam. At the time, I didn’t give it a second thought, but it looked like he might have been “hard” when we got back in the car to head to lunch. Later that evening, he was very interested in having sex – very interested! I wondered if watching my exam had “turned him on” somehow?
I had to change doctors 2 years ago when we moved. I checked around and the most highly recommended gynecologist in the area we moved to is male and I decided to started seeing him. When my husband learned my new gynecologist was male, he seemed curious about it. I wouldn’t say he was “upset,” but it definitely caught his attention. The evening after my first exam by my new male doctor I recall my husband asking me several questions about how the exam went. Later that evening, he was very interested in having sex. His interest and insistence reminded me of the day he sat in the exam room with me.
Fast forward to a year later when it was time for me to have another routine exam by this male doctor. While chitchatting about our schedules, I told my husband I have my annual gynecological exam later in the week. Hearing me talk about my exam seemed to make him “uncomfortable.” He asked if I was still going to the same doctor and I told him I was. Then he asked about the day and time of my exam. I told him I had an 8 AM appointment on thus and such a day. Here is where it got weird. I was up early the morning of my appointment getting ready to leave the house and planning to go to work after my exam. My husband woke up “horny” that morning and was trying to interest me in sex. We kissed for a while and I told him I didn’t really have time; I had an appointment. He kept insisting (in a playful way). I said he was going to make me late for my doctor’s appointment. Again, he kept insisting. Well, we ended up “doing it,” quickly. My husband came in me pretty fast, which is unusual for him. I cleaned up the best I could, but was running late for my appointment. The exam went fine. But, while I was in the stirrups, being examined, I could feel some of my husband’s sperm leak out of me. I was so embarrassed! The doctor just kept on with the exam but, after he left the room, his nurse mentioned it would be best for my husband and I to “refrain from intercourse” just prior to my exam. So embarrassing! Looking back, I wondered whether my husband wanted to have sex with me, and leave a little “present” in me, prior to my exam?
Fast-forward one more time to this year’s exam, which happened a few weeks ago. Through casual conversation my husband learned I had another exam coming up. He asked if I was still seeing the same doctor and I told him I was. The morning of the exam he got “amorous” again and I thought to myself, “Uh oh, just like last year.” He was very, very insistent and again I relented. In the middle of it I whispered to him, “Don’t come in me baby, I have my gynecologist appointment in a few hours.” After I said that he rolled me over onto my tummy and we continued. Sometimes he likes to pull out and come all over my bum, so I thought that was what he was getting ready to do. After a few minutes I could tell he was getting “close” and he pulled out of me. Instead of finishing ON my bum, he slipped INSIDE my bum. I don’t mind “butt sex” and actually even like it. But I was not expecting him to do this now! As soon as he was inside, I felt him start to cum. Just like last year, I was now running late for my exam, so I cleaned myself up and headed to my appointment. Again, I was a bit “messy” on the exam table, this time with my husband’s sperm leaking from my bum hole. While performing the rectal exam, my doctor made a few comments to me about “how to have safe, comfortable anal sex,” which was totally embarrassing for me!
I don’t know if my husband is “jealous” of my annual pelvic exam, especially when I go to a male gynecologist, and he wants to “stake out his territory” prior to my exam or whether he’s turned on by my exams? Has anyone had a similar experience with their husband or boyfriend?
-- Marcy
Other men seeing the wife or girlfriend naked is a fairly common scenario, and often the male will have cuckold fantasies, although for some just someone seeing her is enough.
With us now having the internet which is full of videos and stories on the subject, it appears that a large portion of males have those thoughts, thus more normal than not.
Most just don't act on it, though.
When my girl friend wanted to go on birth control, we went to her Doctor who was a younger man about 30, good looking in my opinion. He asked me if I wanted to be there for the exam, I said sure, so we went in and I sat nearby in a little chair. There was a much older nurse in the room also.
He asked her lots of what seemed to be personal questions, some about pain during intercourse and did she have any concerns about reaching orgasm. She told him no, then he had her put her legs in the stirrups and slid her gown up.
With his finger inside her, asked her about pain, to which she answered no.
Then he asked her again if she had pain during intercourse with her husband, and she said, "Oh, we aren't married!"
May, talk about a face turning red fast and his fingers out of there. Flustered, he was apologizing all over the place, my girl friend started to giggle since she was laying there with her lower body nude and legs wide open.
He looked at me, still flustered, and told me that I should not be in there if we were not married.
I told him we lived together which calmed him down a little.
The older lady nurse sure had her eyebrows raised but she said nothing at all.
We laughed about that nearly all the way home.
My husband for some reason went absolutely bonkers (in a negative way) over gyn exams, especially during pregnancy and birth. I finally just had him learn how to do it all himself. I haven't had anyone but him touch my privates for over ten years, including an amazing freebirth of our son, and honestly that feels pretty good. Ob/gyns greatly overestimate their special skills and necessity.
Yeah, my husband always get aroused when he learns of my OB/GYN appointments. If he had his wish all OB/GYN's would be horny men.
He thinks of you as a cum dumpster and has a need to constantly prove it. You like it too, or, you'd make a better attempt to wash out that slime gulch.
I wouldn't say he's jealous, but it is sure as hell one of his kinks.