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Just don't understand
Not sure what has happened to change my wife. We dated for 2 yrs. been married now for 6. Our sex life has always been awesome she could, we could, never get enough. We were like rabbits.
Now all of a sudden, it's like someone turned off her "fuck me switch". She wants nothing to do with sex between us. No fucking, sucking, kissing, snuggling, holding, or touching. She won't even dress or change in front of me any more.
I've tried everything I can thing of, nothing has worked, I just don't understand whats happening to our relationship.
I wish my wife would have an affair and tell me about it and give me permission to do the same. Our sex life was never that great and has only gotten worse since getting married. I'd love to know what type of relationship she's wililng to have and to let me have
Update
Things have gotten better since first posted this. My wife is only 28 years old. She confessed to me about a week ago, that she had, had a one night stand with one of her co-worker, a couple months back, and thought she was pregnant from it. You see she's not on any type of birth control, because we were trying to start a family. Well I'm a new product coordinater for one of the auto plants in Michigan. This past year and a half I've been working 24/7, 14~16 hrs a day. Leaving no real time for her, or love making. Apparently she got tired of the 5 minute quickies in passing.
I told her I didn't blame her one bit, and for gave her for what happen. I'm now making sure to give everything she needs and wants. I've stepped back and letting my assistants and co-workers take more of the responsibility for the project that rolls out summer 2020.
With this update, I’d even more strongly suggest you take the marriage counseling advice. You’re doing the right thing so far, but there will be baggage attached to this and it’s better to deal with it now rather than let it fester for years. I’d honestly recommend a certain amount of counseling to any young couple. It can save a lot of miscommunication down the road. Good luck to you.
I'd go see a marriage counselor or, if everything else seems fine in the relationship, a sex therapist. It could be that something is pissing her off about you and she just doesn't want to talk about it, but the effect is that it is killing her libido. If she's still under 40 she should still be horny, so go see someone and figure it out.
It's called marriage. Get used to it, because this is the way it's going to be until death.
Depending on her age it could be hormone imbalance from menopause . If she is younger it may be stress, tired from her job just mentally burnt out or she may have found another man and has been fucking him.