Wife didn't come home

My wife went to a dinner party at a friend's house. Her friend has a side business selling lingerie and she went over to pick up some things she ordered as well as try on some of the samples with her friends. That's why husbands weren't allowed to go. It was a girl thing. I said "fine" and hung out at home and watched sports and had a few beers.

It was getting late, around 11 PM, and my wife hadn't come home yet. I called her, and I could tell that she was drunk. It was also really loud in the background, music blaring and loud chat. I offered to pick her up, even though it was only a few miles away, but she said don't worry I'll be home in about an hour.

I went to bed and woke the next morning and she still hadn't come home. I called her, but got her voicemail. She eventually rolled in at 9:30 AM and her blouse was wrinkled, hair was a mess, mascara slightly smeared, and the lipstick she put on the previous evening was gone.

She said she realized she was too drunk to drive and didn't want to bother me, so she stayed over. I asked if she had sex, but she said no. I don't know. She immediately took the lingerie she had in her bag and washed it right away. That made me suspicious, but maybe I'm overthinking things. I don't have any reason to suspect that she ever has cheated on me in our 6 years together, and don't think she's bi, but this one makes me wonder.


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  • If she was out until 9:30 AM she got laid more than once. And if all the pieces of lingerie she took to the party had to be washed before you could see them, she fucked more than one guy, because if she was just lying in a bed fucking the same guy over and over she wouldn't have needed several changes of thongs, etc.

    Now you have to decide whether to throw her out or accept that it happened and go on being married. If you accept it, you have to either tell her it's okay (maybe okay if she doesn't do it very often), or that it's not okay with you, it's slutty behavior and you don't want to be married to a slut, so if she does anything with another guy again you'll divorce her.

  • My first wife enjoyed lingerie and toy parties because she was usually the "testing dummy". Any body there could try out any sex toy on her to see how well it worked, or didn't, which guaranteed my wife endless orgasms, and sex with many other women. I quite often had to pick her up, literally, at the end of the night and her crotch was always wet and sticky. Of course, when I got her home she'd let me fuck her mouth or ass and I'd leave her on the floor when I went to bed. But all was good because she always sucked and/or fucked me in the morning, then after she'd shower she'd tell me all about the night before, including the women she fucked and I'd get so excited that I'd fuck her again. And, there was a bonus, she'd always hook up with another woman who was interested in joining us in bed.

  • So what if she did, a good side fuck is healthy if everyone is discreet about it.
    Last thing you need is some guy at the corner bar bragging he fucked your wife, checked her off on his MILF List.
    My wife came back from girls week at the Shore. She borrowed my carry on but left a box of condoms in the pocket (she's blond) of a 12 pack, 3 were left. so she was having a good time -- but gets points for safety. I waited 6 months asked her if had any side sex. She told the truth -- her and her girlfriend go the W and pick up clean cut rich guys who buy them $25 drinks. I'm like 9 times? she: yup, + 4 or 5 blowjobs 'since you want to hear everything, i won't lie' he 'couldn't get enough of me -- he was younger, good looking and I was flattered.'
    She said she was sorry, she was wrong -- please don't divorce me, she couldn't stand the shame of being divorced for being unfaithful.
    So I got her to agree to do a 3 some though. She's like 'I'm in the doghouse for fucking some guy, and my punishment is fuck 2 guys. I should rob a bank"
    I'll probably never hold her to it, but I know she has this spit roast fantasy now that she never had. We'll be at a club and she'll see some guy 'i wouldn't mind him.' I'm like sure, i'll pick a guy better looking than me -- it's going to be some ugly guy with no teeth."

  • During foreplay wife Jill and I tell sexy stories, mostly confessions of something kinky with an ex. Well last night she's giggling ' I don't know if I should tell you this.' She's built like a brick shit house -- big tits, big ass, Barbie waist. She goes "well I was at the Lingerie Shop last week. There was a couple there too. The three of us got along just fine. I didn't feel funny trying stuff on and him seeing me. He was kidding he hasn't this much boobs since he was at a titty bar years ago. His wife didn't have much. Did I say he was good looking around 35? (she's 45). Well I have this sex top on, I have another one in hand. The dressing rooms are way in the back where his wife is. He goes 'make my year, change tops right here' I look around, it's safe -- so I give him a free show -- I even put my arms up and shake em up like a stripper. You should see the boner I gave him. That made my year. We were having so much fun his wife almost caught me topless. I quick put on the 2nd top. She looks funny like didn't you have that other top on? But she didn't say anything.

  • If this was the 1st time she's come home looking well fucked I'd let it go. It's not worth obsessing about it. She was drunk and I'd bet that she and her friends all got laid. If it happens again you need to make an issue of it.

  • You are not overthinking anything, she cheated on you and is praying you don't ask to many questions.She wants you to forget the whole think like it never happened. Try to check her phone , don't push her with questions , she will clam up and become defensive. In the end you will probably lose all trust in her and that will change you're relationship or destroy it. The ball is in your court , you have to decide what course to take.

  • There is no need to wonder, she screwed her brains out. Her actions gave her away, You have to decide to live with it or take steps to see what she is up to. I suspect she will be doing it again so just wait for her to make the next move.

  • Well sweetheart, I'm afraid your wife was shagged good and proper, probably by more than one guy and she had to wash the spunk splash from her lingerie when she got home!! I expect she had a shower as well to wash some from inside her pussy and arse. Sorry, but that's how it goes.

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