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She's too much
I'm dating this girl in college and I'm about ready to end it. We've only been dating for three weeks. She's really pretty and for the most part looks like a proper girl outside of some tattoos.
I don't like her vibe in the bedroom. I'm more of a soft and sensual type, but she is really into being roughed up and degraded. She asks me to slap her, choke her, and the worst was when she wanted me to piss in her mouth. I can't do any of those things to her, because I like her.
I told her that I'd like to be nice when we have sex, but she said if I love her I'll meet her needs. What? She needs piss down her throat? That's batshit crazy. The weird thing is that she's totally normal other than when we're in the bedroom.
Give her what she wants, because your relationship will end when you've had enough, but the memories will be worth it. But, be careful trying this kink with another woman, because you will want to do it again, maybe even 20 years from now.
Id ask her about her past. She might have had trauma. I dated a woman who was divorced 33 and she was into some heavy abuse during sex. Found out she was abused as a child, got into BSDM in college, was a sex slave to a couple in exchange for rent, and was on lithium for bipolar and depression. She was kinky but too out of her head to stay with long term.
Why cant you compromise? sometimes nice, sometimes rough