Should we go public
We started dating about a year ago and kept it a secret from everybody for an obvious reason: we're nephew and aunt. I openly always liked and dated older women, she always openly liked and dated younger men, and has always stayed single with no children. One night we bumped into each other at a bar, and let's just say that alcohol, a repressed attraction and a secret puberty crush did their thing. Our chemistry in bed was like a nuclear bomb. I don't think there's a sexier, dirtier, more passionate woman on the planet, and I'm totally her type.
We've been at it for a year, but to go on dates we have to make up stories and go to far away places (once we know we're safe, we behave like a normal couple and can barely keep our hands off each other). It's a little frustrating, but now we're wondering, should we make our relationship public? It's a pressing question, since she's pregnant and the baby is obviously mine. She's 44, so it's not exactly a low risk pregnancy, but she wants to keep it and I want to support her. People will start making questions eventually, even if she refuses to reveal who the father is, it'll become quite obvious I'll be the closest man to the baby.
Not as taboo but our secrets are a secret and discretion has always been very very important to us and what we do. But we have been pushing our comfortability and boundaries like we always do. As a kick or a thrill or kink, we decided to be less secretive with one specific person. We aren't and won't make it obvious but what we have been doing is definitely questionable. People at my work are gossiping because in that case it was blatant. So here it is, I have a boyfriend but I fuck a lot of other guys. We live in a small town so discretion is a must, but we wanted to try experimenting kind of going public but not. Like at my work. I have had the one guy bring me lunch a couple times. Everyone knows I have a boyfriend so they've been speculating. And it gets me off! Another thing I've done is gone to one of this guys social functions. I know people that knows people he knows. They might hear about it. Also real quick, I would carry someone else's baby